why it's that when a girl tell a man that she is in love with him every thing change.....
i have been with a man and the day i told him i love him, he ask me not to love him.pls men tell me what to do...you know how we girl are so pls help me
2007-03-26 23:22:52 · 5 answers · asked by lias 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
don't despair, not all guys are like that. The ones that give that excuse aren't looking for love, then there are the guys that are and are happy to share the same emotions you are looking for. As far as men telling you what to do, you need to stay strong and maybe you need to set boundaries so you aren't a push over.
PS never be a door mat ... be strong
Good luck
2007-03-26 23:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because you told him you love him, and he may not have that strength of feeling for you too, so he feels uncomfortable as he doesnt know what to do. its common in relationships for one person to fall in love with the other first, then the other falls in love much later on.
2007-03-27 07:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by Marv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why not to love him if he gives the genuine answers then stop thinking about him otherwise force him to love you tell him how desperately you love him
2007-03-27 07:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by simar m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no what u mean that always happ (but i've only been in deeply in love with 1 person)
2007-03-27 06:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by amy_baby123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor thing sounds like he aint worth it!
2007-03-27 06:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by Molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋