when when is it going to get better?? and when am I going to forget him I have been trying so hard to keep busy nothing is working--I will never do this again to myself go out with a married man
2007-03-26 22:58:35 · 16 answers · asked by beaq 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry but a woman that messes around with a married man deserves all the hurt that she can get back. It will get better when you learn some morals and self confidence to find your own man and not try to ruin others lives.
2007-03-26 23:13:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will get better over time hon. Do positive and fun things for you now and meet new people and make new friends. See a counselor if need be. You are much better off without this married man and now you can live your life as a single person should. You may never forget him very easily but do positive things and keep smiling and like i said meet new people and open up your life to new and exciting things! Good luck to you and i hope you start to feel better soon. At least you have learned this lesson in life so this is a start to a better life for you from here on out!
2007-03-27 06:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a f*ucking homewrecker and look for a single guy. You honestly think most married men are going to throw everything away in a marriage for a quicky? You were a warm hole when his marriage was in a dicey situation. You altered your schedule to make it work. You probably did things his wife wouldn't do. You didn't nag because your probably not a full-time mother/wife with little free personal time. Stop being convenient for someone else and put yourself first. Try starting a relationship from the ground up. You don't fall into the bells and whistles...you actually have to work for it.
2007-03-27 09:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats so worngyou shoul not of got with a married man! and you say you wont ever do this to yuorself what about the guys poor wife! how do you think she would feel if she found out! what her husband has been doing with you!!!! and the answwer to your question is that it will get better! if you loved this man, cant really call him that after what he did but oh well. then it is going to take time i dont condone what you did but you have to expect that if your with a guy who is married he will rarely leave his wife for his mistress they normally have women on the sside as they are sex hungry men who feel they need more thatn one women which is wrong. any way good luck hope things get better for you, and you find a decent man. and that you wont feel you need to share in the future.
2007-03-27 06:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not going to get better leave now. What did you expect going out with a married man,
2007-03-27 06:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lou 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please do not ever do this again- it is not healthy for you and damages so many people that you can't even imagine, the wife and kids...
Rather get yourself some nice, male companionship in the meanwhile- someone to rock you and shake you and help you just to forget this married man...
Honey... never forget the saying- IF THEY DO IT WITH YOU ... THEY WILL DO IT TO YOU
Even if he leaves his wife... I 100% guarantee that he WILL CHEAT ON YOU!
Good Luck and God Bless you!
2007-03-27 06:04:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is a good thing to think about. Start going out with friends and let them help you forget him. When I broke up with my ex my friends where the best because they got me out and got my mind off of him. They were awesome through that break up and I will always love them even more for it.
2007-03-27 06:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by Alicia E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to forget about him in just 5 days, it'll take longer than that. The main thing is that you walked away and learned something from this.
2007-03-27 07:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by ending the relationship with that guy.
You may feel miserable now, but trust me, as time passes, you'll feel better.
Spend more time with your friends. Maybe try doing some volunteer work so you can be thinking be thinking of others instead of your current state.
2007-03-27 06:07:47 · answer #9 · answered by acorn922 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. You have learned a important lesson. It will get better with time. Give yourself a pat on the back for doing the wright thing.
2007-03-27 06:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by starflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋