Rencently, I found out that the guy my friend is seeing is also seeing other women. Unfortunately, my friend has NO idea about it. She always said she does not want to see him if she is not the only one for him. Should I tell her what i know? Or should I not get involved in this and let her find out on her own?
2007-03-26 22:48:45 · 17 answers · asked by Sweetie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she is your friend..u should tell her.u have to be cruel only to be kind..because it's the right thing to do.save her from the cheater.U have to stand beside her so that she can be strong.It'll hurt her..but it'll hurt her more in the future..tell her the truth..but with some proof..or else there is a chance she might not believe in u.take care and good luck
2007-03-26 22:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business---saying anything might appear as jealousy--and she won't believe you---however this creep is another story--when you see him--just visually stare at him--turn and walk away--he will know you sense something and will make him wonder--jusy say nothing---foolish men get guilt trips just by disapproving stares at a proper time--also have NO words for him--just walk away--treat him as a bug--you wouldn't talk to a bug, would you?? He will show the world eventually that he is a lowlife creep---cheats always get caught--and your friend will learn. Good luck
2007-03-27 06:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't tell her and she finds out that you knew, you will have pretty much ended a friendship. I would be devestated if a friend didn't tell me something like that if she knew it. I wouldn't want to hear suspicions or her just bad mouthing, but if she really knew, yes! She better tell me!
2007-03-27 06:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you want her to do? Probably tell you, right? You should tell her right away he sounds like he's no good. He may end up giving her a STD, then you would feel just awful!
Go tell her right now because that's what a friend would do.
2007-03-27 05:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her,friends are there to watch each others backs.no matter what happens, after u do tell her give her abit of space and let her decide what she wants to do and honestly uv done the right thing whether she realises that or not.
2007-03-27 07:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by suzanne b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard to say because if you tell her then you will be in the middle of it but if you don't tell her and she finds out that you new about it , you are in trouble as well, I would rather bring it up to him and let him know that you know what he is doing and that if he doesn't tell your friend you are??????
2007-03-27 12:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by Nena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you could try to let her see her boyfriend with the other person or get some evidence to prove if you really want to let her know...no one would believe that her boyfriend is cheating on her and she might think you are jealous...maybe it is best to let her chance upon it and realise it one day on her own...that way you won`t spoilt your friendship...
2007-03-27 05:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by graceless_sky5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. She will find out eventually, and it'll be a lot worse if she also finds out you knew and said nothing.
2007-03-27 06:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by blueshoe711 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell her friend that you know about him and give him a chance to cut the other relation or tell her the Truth before you do
2007-03-27 06:15:18 · answer #9 · answered by Sufyan D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely you should unless you dont treat your friend as your friend. You should not let your friend gets hurt by this relationship further anymore.
2007-03-27 06:20:59 · answer #10 · answered by Endless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋