I met my husband 25 years ago and just recently married him. I always believed we were supposed to be together, and our bond to eachother is incredible, but the nagging question am i with my soul mate still occassionally perplexes me.
2007-03-26 22:37:18 · 14 answers · asked by Janna S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are asking this question, then you are uncertain. Uncertainty means NO. Do him a favor and get a divorce. Don't waste his time. How do you think he would feel if he knew about this posting of yours? Loyalty and trust is the foundation of any relationship. Consider seeing a therapist to resolve any personal issues concerning commitment and insecurity issues you have.
2007-03-26 22:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Momster 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is always that bit of uncertainty, no matter how deep or long the relationship has been. The point is that you do not even know your own soul and as such knowing a soul-mate is absoultely impossible. In charting this uncertainty our best weapon is the choice by which we decide and stick by it. I dare say in your case, that you will net ever find a better mate than your present--a choice you made 25yrs ago and have stuck with despite uncertainty. The key is to make a choice, based on available options and stick with it, despite other available options. Thats what being married means: staying with and forsaking all others
2007-03-26 22:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by Elder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you strongly believe that, that you and your husband are meant to be together and I have no reason to doubt that you do. In fact with just 44 words I actually believe you do. So why this nagging question ? Is it something from your past ? childhood ? That has come back to question your right to be with your man. Do you have people jealous of you both ? ...But if you really ask me, what you really need is to go deep. I mean deep as in spirtually. You 2 need to connect in different dimension now. Soul Mate or marriage is basically the union of 2 souls in heart mind and soul. Sex is just but a signature to the inward union. So dont be afraid go deep. Ask God to give you the insight to this mystery of marriage and union of 2 souls. Seek out the deeper meaning of why you married this man. And he you.
2007-03-28 19:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe you are suppose to be together, and love him enough to marry him after knowing him for 25 yrs., then I would definitely say you have married your soul mate. Congratulations! Don't stress over nagging questions, enjoy your husband and your lives together. God bless!
2007-03-27 06:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about this. As long as you're happy, that is what counts.
As far as I can tell there really are no "soul mates". Wouldn't that require the "perfect" match? There is nothing perfect in this world.
2007-03-26 22:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i do not. men and women simply occur to love every different they usually would have simply as most probably favored anybody else with the equal features. that is what i suppose a minimum of... good, no longer every body is this fashion, however i am certain the vast majority of the sector is, and that makes it fake that soul associates truthfully exists due to the fact we could all have one if there have been briefly, i do not consider in love.
2016-09-05 17:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself the following questions:
DO u get jealous when u see other happy couples?
DO u feel proud to introduce your husband with someone?
Do u feel like kissing him at midnight when u wake up?
And last of all...close your eyes...try to imagine a face in your head..the first face that comes to your imagination..is that your husband's?
Hun..whatever it may be..u've been with him for 25 yrs..and u got married to him for a reason..that's love.i believe u r lucky.good luck:)
2007-03-26 22:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u need to ask that question than im guessin ur probably not with ur soul mate..... its hard i know......u think the person ur married to and in love with is ur soul mate and most times thats not the case..........yeah thats all i got .
2007-03-26 22:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by I V X 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must be i mean youv known each other for 25 yrs n havent got boerd of each other n if u can tell what he'll d next you totally have so chill out.....
2007-03-26 22:42:26 · answer #9 · answered by thelibrandiva_666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a strange question if youre with the man you love.
seems a better nagging question might be...how often can i make love to this wonderful guy? ;) peace
2007-03-26 22:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋