So do you feel a little jealousy if your man looks at another women?, or jealous if he goes out with his buddies?...or little things that bring out that jealous side to you?
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2007-03-26 22:35:53 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not normally jealous, but with my husband from time to time I do find myself feeling that green eyed monster creeping up. Mostly when I think of his ex's and how undeserving they were but still had him.
I think jealousy is more a reaction to the fear of losing someone you love.
2007-03-27 02:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he stares for few seconds to another woman,i get offended.It is rude and disrespectfull.He can do that when i am not around.If he goes out 2-3 nights a week,i won't be happy about that either.Therefor to avoid all that,i think the man has to do all of that before marriage.When he is tired of stareing and partying,when he is ready for a family,then it's time to get married.At the age of 35 and older is nice.
2007-03-27 05:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we are gonna be honest, EVERYONE has some jealous tendencies, if they love the person they are with. Yeah I get jealous. My boyfriend is a musician. He knows alot of women from his club days (nights). He was also born and raised in this area, so he knows alot more people. I get a little jealous, but I know who he comes home to every night. I know who he loves.
2007-03-27 10:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by sassynsweet1221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly it depends on how trustworthy the guy is.
There could also be other factors that rate jealousy i.e. insecurities, low self-esteem, obsession etc.
I used to be a little jealous when my bf goes out with his friends, but mainly just because I really wanted him with me.
People differ, so it also depends on personality..
2007-03-27 05:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by sexybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not jealous but it hurts me if they look at another woman to lust after here or if they keep staring as this is rude... Look at it this way how would you feel if your wife or woman looks at other guys or goes out with her buddies more then she goes out with you? If he stares and ogles then to me it is wrong just like if a woman does that to other guys. A glance here and there is not hurtful though. It is when they look them up and down and keep on looking that is hurtful.
2007-03-27 05:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is looking at another women in front of me? Hell yeah. That is rude. But I have no problem with my man chillin with his guys. In fact I think for a relationship to work each person has to have their own life
2007-03-27 05:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not the jealous type at all if he wants to be with me then he will be if not the he should leave I'm not going to keep him on a leash and watch his every movement and if he does cheat he is out of my life
2007-03-27 06:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
used to be that way but not at all anymore. I encourage my man to go out with friends, I'll check out hot girls with him. I try not to be the controlling hag that all the guys talk about at work. him on the other hand lol whole nother story
2007-03-27 05:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by princess1226 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am horrible about it and am working on it constantly. I'm so bad I get on my husbands email accounts to see who he is talking to. I've even gone as far as emailing one of the girls and telling her it was me so she would leave him alone, so far she has. He's in Iraq so not too much can be going on....I hope! I trust him I just don't like him being tempted.
2007-03-27 05:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by ~never again~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess ladies get jealous because they love their men.
2007-03-27 05:38:59 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋