Do You Think Young Girls Should Be Forced To Tell Parents She's Pregnant?

Question

You know, personally I think its a real shame that people have to question these things now a days. I thought this was "The New Millenium" However, to be mature, no they should'nt. Because if they're pregnant the parents already failed, and now it's up to the girl to be responsible. What do you think? And please don't say anything stupid like it's not mom and dad's fault, or it's the government's fault, be clear and straight to the point.

Im sorry typo, like "it's the kid's fault,"

I don't think you guys really get it! Here we go again! Children learn everything they know from the world! Bottom line, yes, the parents AND society are responsible for everything a kid does wrong, no doubts!

Answer 1

I wish parents would love their children unconditionally. If that were the case teenagers would not be comitting suicide or having botched abortions at some illegal clinic and bleeding to death somewhere, like an alleyway (oh yeah, there's a whole 'nother debate) rather than go home and "disappoint" mom and dad. Sorry, but in a sense, it is mom and dad's fault because they should have talked to her years ago rather than expect sympathy and cry the blues at the funeral parlor. I speak of one case where a doctor told a girl, I give you two days to go home and tell your parents you're pregnant. If they don't call me by then, I will call them. She threw herself down the stairs in an attempt to miscarry so she wouldn't cause her parents shame. She is now paralyzed for life, but, oh well, she lost the baby and didn't cause her upper class parents shame! All I can say is, and thumbs down whatever you wanna give me -thank you Planned Parenthood for helping to prevent other young girls from doing the same!!!!Because not only did those self-righteous idiots deprive themselves of a grandchild, they also lost a daughter. Actually, sad to say, maybe it was for the best. If your own daughter was that frightened of you, I'd hate to see how you'd treat an "illegitimate" grandchild. Especially when you go to church each Sunday and are so hollier than thou when your daughter is a parapalegic and you're crying poor little me and praying for her, all the while looking for sympathy for yourself because "We didn't do anything" !!! Selfish scum! I've seen it happen too many times. Yes, in part, it is the parents' fault. A family that prays together, stays together. And if your own daughter is so afraid of you as a parent that she'd rather attempt suicide- THAT DOES NOT say much about you as a parent!!!! No, they should not be forced to tell their parents if they will suffer the same fate as Leanne and her unborn baby boy. Go to Planned Parenthood, they will help you!!!

Answer 2

If you want clear and straight to the point honest answers then you can't tel people what not to say. It is not stupid to say it isn't Mum and Dad's fault- if that can be explained. Think of every single thing you ever have done. Was everything you ever did your Mum / Dad's fault? I really doubt it. Maybe if you had children or cared for other people's children (assuming that you haven't) you would see that children are indiviuals and that they will do things- some good some bad some average and some very bad. An example is a friend of mine- she is one of 3 sisters and as they were children their parents were so pleased that they were doing such a great parenting job because the 3 girls were little angels. Then they had another child and that child was extremely challenging. Just because you raise a child a certain way doesn't mean you will get a certain result. Anyway I wouldn't have to say that if you didn't accuse it as being stupid. In answer to the actual question- I think they should tell the parents- because the parents have a duty of care for their child and the child might not know what to do and would need a lot of support. So I say yes but the reason I say yes is so that the child is not alone. I mean unless the child ran away forever then the parents would obviously find out anyway because the child would have a huge tummy and then a baby would arrive soon after

Answer 3

that's a 2 way street it takes both a male and a woman to create the being pregnant. extra then in all probability both did not understand the consequences, risks, or utilising safe practices because they weren't knowledgeable about what takes position at the same time as human beings do finally end up having sex. you won't be able to stress all of us to stay with someone. It received't artwork and it stupid to imagine that you'll stress someone to stay. no matter if it form of worked the youngster could study about the strained relationship with parents. Thats no longer a superior ingredient. Nope nope nope. also, i imagine that child help is an complete comic tale. mothers and fathers should be of their youngster's lives except they're abusive.

Answer 4

Sometimes, there are scenarios when the parents did everything they could to teach the girl what was right, and she went out of her way to do exactly what they taught her not to do. Is it still the parents' fault? Personally, if she was living in my house, got pregnant, and still expected to live in my house after the baby was born, I would tell her that if she was big and bad enough to lay down and make the baby then she was big and bad enough to take care of the baby. Sure, she can stay home, but she can forget about getting me to babysit because, "I want a life of my own. I want to see my friends. I want to go to the prom." She gave up those priviliges when she got herself into this.

Answer 5

Yes ......parents should have unconditional love for there kids and we have all stuffed up one time or another.........parents will love us no matter our mistakes.