I met my friend in December 2006 when he came to London to see the new job he will move to next month. We had good 3 days together. Then he went back home for few weeks where I called him saying marry xmas and happy new year and I called him n his birthday. Then he came to London in January and we had good time, I did my best not to upset him as I know that he is new here and he has no room to live and he has many problems(moving, finding a place …etc) I helped him and he was ok with the help.
Then I had to go home by the first of January, my plans was to stay here for just 4 weeks, but by the end of the moth I had a kidney stone operation not very serious but the doctor told me to stay at home for at least 2 weeks and not to travel the next month. The point is that I sent him a sms telling him so and then I called him after the operation yes he used to send few sms before the operation… the guy did not call me in my birthday and did not send any more message I was the one did all that, then I said ok I will not send any thing tell I hear from him again and he did not send nothing…… should I send him sms telling him that or just see what he will do. I like the guy and I told him that I will not be with another man while I here he said that too to me but he had few actions before I come I felt that he was trying to repel me but I said nooo people are nervous when they are moving…. Well do not know….what shall I do?
2007-03-26 21:36:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
we are 31-33 years
2007-03-26 21:44:24 · update #1
iam not back to uk yet, i will be mid Aril
2007-03-26 21:47:12 · update #2
oh...so i just forget about him...even when i go back to UK?...
2007-03-26 22:12:16 · update #3
oh guys that is so sad.... thank you for your answers i really appriciate it.....
so i sould say nothing at all and ignore the whole story. or send him sms saying that all the best or any thing to show that we are over?
2007-03-26 23:34:05 · update #4
thank you guys for the suport...happy birthday to you too kim.
2007-03-27 00:29:03 · update #5
People really suck don't they. It sounds like he got what he wanted and now he is done. My advice to you is not to contact him. He is probably not worth the effort. A real man would contact you and let you know what is going on. A real man would also wish you a happy birthday. A real man would not leave you in limbo like he has. You are better than that. Happy Birthday mine was Sunday. Good Luck to you.
2007-03-27 00:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by kim j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I think the other answerer's are right...no point in putting more energy in a bloke who doesn't really seem to be interested in you... he could have called you or send a sms every once in a while...
2007-03-26 22:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wake up, the guy probably used you. It happens a lot, learn to keep your shields up when meeting people, sounds to me like you fell hard to a little attention. Wake up!
2007-03-26 23:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really cared, and wanted to be a part of your life. He would call. I personally would let him be the butterfly that you set free.
2007-03-26 21:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by john dough 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with James, if he cared for you at all, he would have called, or at least messaged.When people stop answering your messages, it is sure sign they have moved on. You should to. :)
Hope you are feeling better!
2007-03-26 21:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by Donny S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cannot think that your relationship is equal. He doesn't seem to care for you as much as you care for him. There's something that he wants that he will not let go of. He's not committed to you, it would seem.
You keep your chin up though, okay?
2007-03-26 23:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't bother. He obviously isn't interested, otherwise he would phoned or sent a message.
2007-03-26 21:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by james c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but he's just not that into you - cut him loose and find a guy that respects you.
2007-03-26 23:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by kissaled 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it.
let the dust settle.
then address your relationship.
2007-03-26 21:41:44 · answer #9 · answered by john john 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋