Are Asian men stereotyped by Asian women?

Question

First I will state, I am black. When I first notice posts online concerning this so-called phenomenon I didn't pay much attention. Couple of years went by and I starting reading them. Then I started paying attention to couples. Then I realize, outside of let's say China Town most asian women seemed to be with white guys. Matter of fact seeing asian couples seemed to be rare. Then I would check out dating services online and many perfered white men only. I started learning Japanese which brings me in contact with many asian people. The japanese guys who come over for experience can't find a girl (sometimes even asian girls) to go out with to save their lives, and the asian girls all go out with white guys. And if the guy is not white he is black or hispanic. What're they have against asian guys? I have asian guy friends and some can't find a date. If white women did this it would be taken seriously. White male/asian women are the highest interracial couplings in marriage for a reason

I even knew an asian guy who was an engineer couldn't find a wife and went back to his home country so he had a better chance. Is this suppose to be because allllll asian men are chauvenistic, socially disfunctional, nerds etc!

Answer 1

I try not to stereotype all asian men. I work in a college and when I see nerdy asian men with glasses on friday nights at the gym playing ping pong and wearing knee high socks then yes, I think of the movie "revenge of the nerds".
I've seen some really athletic asian men in the past... I am merely talking about what I see when I go to the gym and the late night computer labs.

Answer 2

I'm MExican, Hispanic, Latino, Whatever The "Politically" Correct Word Is. I Want To Date Outside My Race. Learn From Different Cultures And Backgrounds, You Know?? Me Myself, I LOVE Asian-American Girls, I Think Their Ancestry And Culture, Background, All That Is Interesting. But The Thing Is, I Don't Think They Really Date/Marry Outside Their Race, You Know?? And IAgree, It's Usually A "White"Guy, Ain't Nothing Wrong With That, It's Just That They Only Date/Marry Either Race, Either White Or Asian. But Yeah, I Could Care Less If People Date Outside Thier Race, Much Less About What Others May Think About Me Dating Outside The Race. I Know My Family Doesn't Care. Hopefully, I'll Find A Asian-American Female That Will Date/Marry A Mexican, Hispanic, Latino, Whatever!! Also, I've Been Noticing Alot Of Cute Black Females And Another Kind Of Females That Are Hardly Ever Spoken About Are Indian-American Females. Some Of Them, When They Have Thier Hair Down And Without That Head Dress Deal They Wear, Some Are Just Real Real Gorgeous!!! But That's Just Me, Though. But Asian-American Females, Whhoooo, Nothing Tops Them!!!!! L.O.L

Answer 3

Yep, you're right, asian women and their family prefers doll like appearance if it's white mixed. I have alot of asian girl friends admitt that they have sex with white guys to get a asian/white mixed children. They just don't want to admitt that they really craves powers, since white man hold a higher status in U.S than asian guys. (Lighter skin is desired in asian culture)

Answer 4

I'm an asian girl and I perfer asian guys. Maybe the asian guys you've met are either too picky or are just not looking in the right places.

Answer 5

l am an asian girl
yes l love white guys
but l would date a black guy if you are cute

Answer 6

why are you so long-winded? is it because you have nobody else to talk to?