Only sexual feelings towards men?

Question

I'm a female teenager, and I'm questioning my sexuality.

Some people (men especially it seems) claim to feel only sexual feelings for men, but want to be in relationships with women.

I think that I'm the same way. I don't feel as much of a sexual attraction towards women (there are those specific few who you're just like "I wanna get on that!") but I can imagine myself in a relationship with a woman. With men, it's different. I basically want to jump any good looking guy I see, but I can't really see myself actually in a relationship with a guy. I just think that they're foxy. I like butch, dominate girls for the most part.

I guess I'm confused. Has anyone experienced this? Any "words of wisdom"?

Answer 1

all gay people wheather girls or guys go through the same thing, accepting yourself for who you are is the first step what you're feeling is normal, good luck you are on your way to a happier life

Answer 2

Well you might need to realize something quite important about the differences between fing something and loving something. Which by the way you wrote that description your missing in your life. For one its not a good view of life to believe that one sex is for physical pleasure while another is for mental/emotion pleasure.... thats a perversion in thinking their. It shows outside your sexuality that you have issues in relationship with men in a mental/emotional way, doesn't mean your a lesbian. Women for the most part are able to be more flexiable in their sexual orentation which is why for the most part guys tend to be gayaphobic as they say. Ether way I'd be fearful of your ability to be emotionally intimate with ether sex just by the way your relating your sexual interest. Espacially with the fact that you like butch, dominating girls thats, please don't be offended, a reather immature why of thinking about who you deserve to have as your mate in life. No one deserves to be dominated in a relationship and the fact you not only want it but most likly feel you need it, shows a lack of self-confidence in your ability to do right in your life. Its almost like your looking for a female leader to show you some way of life.... while at the sametime you feel you've got men marked and know that there only worth one thing. You've got an interesting position thou realize because you could love ether sex if you open your own feelings up to the posibilities, but first you need to spend time getting to know yourself. Which you might of want'd to do before you became sexually active because now you've compound your problem... the best of luck, if I were you just reach for who can give you the most deep and fullfilling relationship weather boy or girl.... but this is all more complicated then the scoop of this answer so just for the words of wisdom:
Be Darn Careful Who You Love!
Learn To Love Yourself Frist!
Love is nothing more then a symbol man uses to describe the sum whole of all feelings a person has for an object... so don't get tookin for a ride, love means different things to different people.