well my ex-girlfriend and i are like really tight. even though we broke up in the last three monthes we still talk and hang-out and stuff. but lately alot of bad things started happening to her and she's like in this really deep depression now, and i'm not sure how i should comfort her, whenever we talk on the phone she always starts crying, and whenever we're together her attitude is so depressing. can somebody please tell how i can make her feel better?
thanks for your help.
2007-03-26 19:38:32 · 5 answers · asked by mister_m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the thing is what if things get worse for her if i'm not there to help her out?
2007-03-26 19:50:32 · update #1
i only love her as a friend nothing more than that.
2007-03-26 19:53:45 · update #2
HONEST BEEN THERE DONE IT AND YOU SHOULD JUST RUN. YOUR A YOUNG GUY AND NEED TO START LOOKING FOR A NICE CHICK AND STOP MESSING WITH THESE CRAZY B ITCHES! YOU CAN BE THERE AND WASTE YOUR TIME AND BE A SHOULDER TO LEAN ON, BUT IS IT REALLY GONNA MATTER. UNLESS YOU PLAN TO HOOK UP WITH HER, I WOULD CUT ALL TIES AND MOVE ON TO THE NEXT GIRL WITHOUT THE ISSUES.
2007-03-26 19:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by TIM M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you only like her as a friend i would try distancing myself from her, she would be really dependant, and she may think that you still like her or something like that, and i bet that she has friends that can help her out right now, but if i were you i would still call her every once in a while to see how she's doing, so that she won't feel that she lost one of her friends.
2007-03-27 12:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by cassandra59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u still love her? if u do, stay by her side...stay together with her through this.
if u dont, u have to keep a distance away from her, or else she will juz rely on u more. im sure there are frenz that can comfort her.
2007-03-26 19:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can only help herself but you being there to listen is definitely helping her she just can't show it right now.
2007-03-26 19:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by dixie_n_pixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only be there for her. Just rty and make her laugh.
2007-03-26 19:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by StevieMo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋