So there is this girl....??

Question

I met a few weeks ago at this Straight bar... She came up to me after we both had been making eye contact all night, and says: Before I leave I want you to know that I think your really pretty and love your style...So I reply with: I think your cute..Im new here. maybe I can call you sometime and you can show me some cool place to hangout...SHe says: Actually I bar tend next door Fri & Sat...You should drop by..Soooo the next weekend I do...Its Saint Paddy's day&BAR IS PACK..She stares right at me with no acknowledgment of are previous conversation...(So I think she doesnt remember me)....Since THIS IS the only cool place to go for a drink in this town....I went again this past weekend with my best friends ..She does the same thing servers me a drink no hi no nothing >>>BUt out of no where walks up ,grabs my phone (cuz its Dif..) and says Cool.. puts it back down and walks away... No eye contact.. Then I run into her in the bath and she smiles

So we chat for a bit she confirms her name again and tells me where she is from...(THis time she had a smile on her face)...Im wondering if this girl is maybe bi and possibly interested...or like whatever...She is soooo cute..

Answer 1

I don't think ignoring her is great advice personally because it could backfire and then you'll never really know what she wanted. Why not just put yourself out there and be (pardon the irony) straight with her. Let her know you want to go out again. Give her a specific day and time, I mean she told you where she worked, now you just need to get her to go somewhere else with you. Good luck :)

Answer 2

sounds like she is playing hard to get. She knows she is cute. She knows that you obviously like her. This is the reason you jumped at the suggestion of going to the bar where she works. Some people will do that. They get a kick out of teasing. Playing hard to get.

My suggestion to you is this: If you really like her, then tease her back too. Don't become a victim of circumstances, instead be the master of the situation. Do go back to the bar again, and again. Only this time, try your best to ignore her and then see the fireworks. You would be amazed how quickly she may come around. Good luck!

Answer 3

Yeah sounds like she's at least experimental. But from the sounds of things she's not looking for a relationship, she just thinks you're cute. If that's fine by you, ask her if she wants to meet for lunch or coffee or something casual. Hope all goes well lol ;-)

Answer 4

I'd just continue to return. When you make eye contact, give her flirty looks, but for the most part ignore her. See how it works!