Its hard to tell him for some reason but I want to but that little voice in my head tells me not to tell him. should I tell him or wait for a little while (May 24 the last day of school)
2007-03-26 18:25:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Fear of rejection.
2007-03-26 18:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him. do u want to regret it for the rest of your life [or at least for a while]? Look i had a major crush on this one guy he was a senior and i was a freshman and i had that same voice in my head and worse when he would walk past me i would always get chills and when he looked my way i got real weak and the thought about asking any guy younger or older made me naushis. u get the point but what i'm trying to say is i ignored all of that and asked him out he turned me down nicely and later on i found out he was taken [i should have made shure he was single before he did] but even though i got turned down i felt great! you know why? because i did some thing i didn't think i could do.and it made me stronger.now im more confident than ever. you need to get over that fear like i did trust me you will feel so much better like a big weight was lifted off your shoulder. a little advice - be you, and dont be afraid ignore that voice because you have nothing to loose. i'm not saying you will get turned down but if you do look on the posotive side you gained confidence. Good luck! I hope you get what you wanted.
2007-04-03 21:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you are scared is the same reason most people who are in this situation are...rejection. You are afraid because you think not only will he turn you down, but also it may ruin the friendship you already have. You never know, maybe he feels the same way. If you don't tell him that you like him, you may not ever have the relationship you are wanting. I say go for it.
2007-03-27 01:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. King 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he older than you? Does he have a girl friend? How far from your house from his house? If you answer yes to the first question and maybe not sure to the second one and a mile or more away than you should not tell him. 1. you won't see each other all summer 2. if he has a girlfriend they will have a good laugh and 3 if he lives a mile or more from you. He may not know who you are next year.
2007-04-03 23:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by julie.brittney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the little voice in your head is right. If you wait, the little voice might speak up and give you a good reason.
2007-04-02 09:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are probably scared of rejection but you should still tell this person how you feel the worst that can happen to you is he does not like you back and it will hurt for a while but you are young and there are many other guys out there for you. if you do go for it and tell him how you feel and he feels the same you will both end up happy and together so just go for it, life is to short to live it in fear.
2007-03-27 01:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by nik456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be scared of rejection and also that what you want to say could change your present relationship with him. In most cases, I'd say go for it, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I followed through in a similar situation and I've been with my guy for almost a year now. We're in love and maybe we never would have experienced it if I hadn't approached him. I didn't tell him directly that I liked him, but I offered him my phone number in case he ever felt like calling me, and I told him I had fun with him in class. You just never know, so be brave and follow your heart!
2007-03-27 01:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by Meowzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the little voice is just scared of rejection. I would say tell him, cause if all else fails there is only 2 months left in school ;-)
2007-03-27 01:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by Joe G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just have to feel the fear and do it anyway, you will feel so much better afterwards, don't be scared of rejection it is better to have loved than not at all and who knows theres a 50% chance he feels the same way.
2007-04-03 22:33:23 · answer #9 · answered by NIKKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are afraid to ask him out because you are afraid of getting rejected. You have fear of being hurt...it's normal, everybody goes thought that. Maybe you should wait a little more...perphars you could ask him who does he like to get a clue.
2007-03-27 02:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by anabbx♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him. i was once in the same situation, and i didnt tell the girl who i liked that i liked her. Then one day i told her, and she told me that she felt the same way, but in the past, not anymore. Therefore we never hooked up, because we were to good a friends by then. now shes with a guy and living with him. so yea i think you should tell him.
2007-03-27 01:29:49 · answer #11 · answered by dave s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋