We were about to have sex and it was literally 3 inches long...I love him but I can't have a healthy sex life with that. Help?
2007-03-26 18:23:29 · 22 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Actually three inches probably is plenty. You don't really feel much beyond two inches; the rest is for show. If you love him, don't let superficial things get in the way.
2007-03-27 02:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Maple 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others that if you love him then buy some sex toys and get him to do oral or use his fingers for play. However if you don't really love him then I would suggest breaking off the relationship. Sex is a very important part of a relationship. I honestly think that if some of the people that answered your question was actually with a man that only had a 3 inch penis they would advise you of the same thing. But like I said if you love him alot then try to work on it somehow. Otherwise the relationship will just go down hill if you are unsaticfied with his 3 incher.
And for all the people that said size doesn't matter. Thats a load of crap. I mean... A 3 incher?!?!? Why even bother! I mean.. Maybe a 5 incher but a 3 incher? So that would make it like a centemeter w/o an erection?!? Dear goodness! Bless your heart! I wish you both the best of luck and hope you both find happiness.
2007-03-27 05:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do you know it was only 3 inches long did you measure it. The length of a mans penis is not everything and does not contribute that much to a healthy sex life. The sensitive part of a females vagina is only the first couple of inches anyway. Why not explore other ways of sex and have fun at the same time.
PS, have you ever thought it could be you with the problem.
2007-03-27 01:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by stargazer 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If that's important to you, dump him - he'll be a lot better off without you.
Three inches is the lowest end of the normal range - not that it matters, but below that it would be a considered a micro-penis. There is some experimental surgery to help with that, but nothing that insurance would pay for.
Three inches is sufficient to introduce sperm into the vaginal canal, and father a child, so that will not be a problem.
You can show him how to stimulate you in other ways, especially if you are too fat to get much stimulation from this penis.
2007-03-27 10:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh my what a question....Brittany. First of all, is this the first time for either of you??? Was he aroused???? I don't really know how to say this,...but here goes....did he say anything about his small "organ" ....is he taking steroids for wrestling, weight lifting etc.???? Is he a big guy otherwise??? Were you both hot and passionate????If so....was it erect???? Sometimes it's not the size of the ship, but where the ship "parks" to rock and dock and titillate......I feel soooo weird answering this....but usually women need stimulation on the outside (clitoris) to really achieve orgasm,,,,of course when one has an organ "inside" that feels great as well. You didn't say whether you gave it a shot or not. Keep us abreast.
No pun intended. Now we're most intrigued.....Do you love him?????More info needed to really address the issue....
Good luck to the both of you!
Amor'e Bella!
2007-03-27 01:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by luvbooksswak 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
according to the American medical journal the average size erect penis is 5.5" long so yes your boyfriend is on the small side. that being said we have a downright perversion for sex in this country and we want everything big. big vehicles, big houses and yes woman want their men to have big penises just like men want their women to have big breasts. does all of this over-indulgence make us happy?NO AND HELL NO! despite all of this we are some of the most unhappy people on the planet, because we have the highest divorce rates, the highest murder rates and the highest rates of depression of any civilized nation. FACT!! if you really love the guy then make due and accept his body as is. if a big penis is all you want from A GUY then by all means go find that gigolo with the big dong and let him use and abuse you. then you can be part of the rest of the miserable folks out here!!
2007-03-27 01:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Go to "sexpo" a sex expo and explore the range of available sex toys and buy one. You will never regret it. Make him feel comfortable with using them to compliment his penis. It'll be fun and he will be able to last for what sems like ages... and you will orgasm at least twice every time you get into it.
I hope you have many children together....
2007-03-27 01:38:16 · answer #7 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Three inches is pretty small. So what? Why don't you try anal? Buy a dildo and use it with each other. Get the size that you prefer. You can always try a pump. Don't tell him your plan either. Just do it. xoxo
2007-03-27 01:48:57 · answer #8 · answered by David 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good thing sex isn't everything, right? At least it'll be good for him, you shouldn't have any problem "deep throating" it.
But really, that shouldn't matter. There's not much of anything he can do about it, so I guess it's "take it or leave it."
2007-03-27 01:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Lucky for you there are many men out there with more than 3inches. Go find yourself something a little more pleasing. Happy hunting.
2007-03-27 01:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋