Is it so wrong for me to like transvestites, i mean does that make me gay? Iv been attracted to transvestite men since i saw one at my school when i was 14 or 15 and i thought he was cute and im 17 right now.
2007-03-26 18:07:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't worry about whether or not you're "gay".
It's more important to be honest with yourself about your own sexuality.
If you start lying to yourself trying to be straight, you are yourself easy to control.
Kinsey felt that exclusively straight and exclusively gay were rare. He came up with a scale.
Calpernia Adams (a transexual veteran) and her murdered soldier boyfriend considered themselves straight but obviously their murderer didn't.
Be honest with yourself and admit that the possibility exists of you and a hot tranny hooking up.
You may meet a hot tranny one day or you may just walk around happier with yourself!
BTW, Die Gays afterbirth 3,- YOU ARE IN THE CLOSET! That's why you are so nasty to gays! Your insecurity hides behind those cartoon eyes and you dread the truth of how you long for the embrace of the same sex. Get some help!
2007-03-26 18:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by annarkeymagic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind that there's a difference between a transvestite and a transsexual.
Transvestites are men who like wearing women's clothes, but they still identify as men and live as men when not dressed up. The vast majority of transvestites are straight males.
Transsexuals are women born into a male body who seek to bring their physical and social selves into conjunction with their inner selves. When they wear women's clothes, they're wearing clothing appropriate to their sex.
To answer the OP, no, being attracted to a transvestite or a transsexual woman does not make you gay.
2007-03-26 19:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make you gay, straight or any other label. You are as you identify yourself. If you like transvestites, fine, enjoy yourself. By the way, transvestites like to be called "she" rather than "he" unless they are in men's clothing. Just remember that many transvestites do not have sex with men but enjoy sex with women. Just because they wear women's clothing does not say anything about their sexuality so be careful.
2007-03-26 18:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by tentofield 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about whether it makes you 'gay'. If you meet someone you like, go out with them. Besides, if you like girls, and only like guys when they are dressed as girls, that'd suggest you aren't gay.
2007-03-26 19:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by helehelo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you envy them because you want to be a cross- dresser too.
2007-03-26 18:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by Tenn Gal 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋