can anyone give me any tips on renewing my relationship with my spouse?

Question

i just want things between us to be like it was the first time we met

Answer 1

Have you read Relationship Rescue by Dr. Phil? It really has some great ideas and exercises for you to get back the old flame again. Whether you like Dr. Phil or not the book has some great suggestions. Many libraries have it. All you need is a notebook to do some of the work in the book.