alright so i am a teenage girl and like most teenage girls i am havin trouble with guys.first of all i have curves and they are beautiful but most guys dont like that. anyway back to why i am here. so there are these 3 guys that i have well liked for a while and i need help!!!! nick*---okay so he is younger then i am (only a yr) and well i like him and we have funn together and ive told him how i feel but he hasnt given me an answer and i want to move on but i cant...sean*---okay we dated for like 3 weeks and then he broke up with me but i cant get over him and he just makes things feel right and he plays with my emotions a lot and likes to lead me on and im really confused about him...last one chris*--so he is a yr older then i am but he is out of my league and i am scared to tell him how i feel..me and him get along really well and he is the perfect guy for me but im not sure if he likes a girl with curves and i just dont know wat to do about them..please help me....*names changed!!
2007-03-26 18:05:51 · 9 answers · asked by bri 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You don't need to tell any of them how you feel. Keeping things casual is generally better for letting things develop. Guys can be a little on the callous side from time to time. Immature guys are worse. Keep pursuing all three without being obvious. If one or more of them pursues back, you can pick who you want and don't want. Don't worry about a guy being "out of your league", confidence and personality are important. Yes, most guys have a physical "type", but you'd be surprised at how often that type is curvy.
2007-03-26 18:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by Nels N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say your curves are beautiful, then they are! As long as they don't bothe ryou, and you show that, people are much less likely judge you on appearance. Be confident.
Now about the boys...of the three, I'd say that Chris seems the most suitable. You may think you are "way out of your league," but in teh real world, there are no leagues--it's every man (or woman) for himself (herself)!! Keep trying. If he is perfect, then persue him!
In the meantime, tell this Sean kid to quit messing with your head--he broke up with you, so now he needs to stop any kind of romantic contact, emotional or physical, becasue it is unfair to you.
And Nick--he hasn't said he didn't like you , right? Unfortunatley, with boys, often times "no news is bad news." So keep hopeful, but don't expect too much. You never know, something could happen!
Good luck, girl!!
2007-03-26 19:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by YouDon'tEvenKnow! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nick:
>>> I go for him. My father is a year younger than my mother but it doesn't seem to matter.
Like you said, you have fun with him.
Maybe he is just until now thinking of what you have said. Who knows? He is almost thinking of liking you too.
Sean:
>>>Sorry to say but I say just get over it.
He already broke up with you which means he might not be comfortable with you ( I am not sure with that).... SORRY! sorry to say...
Chris:
>>> Be confident. Try to tell it to him. Age doesn't matter. Don't take maybe's as an answer. Don't mind your curves to much... he may even like it. As you said, he may be the perfect guy...
===Hope I helped... Good Luck!===
2007-03-26 18:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay Bri, your problem is only as serious as you want to make it. Ages don't really matter so forget those considerations. What really matters is where you want to go with this. You're not in the market for marriage...yet. You're looking for a bf who will honor you, who you enjoy spending time with and about whom you have a good feeling. So take your pick. Anyone will be fine. Or pick them all. What you are describing isn't a problem unless you make it one. Believe me, you won't make a mistake.
2007-03-26 18:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever say someone is out of your league. you need more self esteem and confidence. be confident and happy with yourself and the right guy will come along when you least expect it.
2007-03-26 18:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a. work on your confidence.
b. believe that no one is out of your leage
c. Take charge of things, rather than being led on
2007-03-26 19:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dudette u should totally tell all of them how u feel and see if any of them like u back. i would go with nick though.
2007-03-26 18:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by dancerchik555 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry thinks will work out.
2007-03-26 18:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by big_e_40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becoming bisexual suddenly doubles your chances of dating.
2007-03-26 18:08:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋