My husband wants me to do oral *** for him. Is it okay to say no? Am I defying him by saying no? or will it make our relationship more pleasant by saying yes? Is oral sex essential to a man's life?
2007-03-26 17:38:01 · 6 answers · asked by Smith 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
as looking at ur question i would say no there is not essential part related towards oral sex or any sexual activity nor does it has to be a necessary thing to be performed or practied on someone's body even if its ur husband or wife....what i believe here is emotions are really based upon relationships no matter how deep u look towards them and not just any sort of sexual behaviour one would accept to perform with the husband or wife but he or she also engages into the lifestyle of a historical based events. like sex or any sort of oral activity is not something be called modern or modernised and revised in this world....my suggestions would be there is no harm in understanding each others prefrences for example u both should consider and respect each others like,dislikes and comforts,discomforts...its not something forceable that there is a term that it would defy ur husband by not letting him get any oral sex at all...the only way ur relationship could get better and pleasent would be how u both interact with each other during such situations like the one u just explained concerning sexual life .....and oral' into it....now as far the essential part is concerned in the end again i would repeat that no there hasnt been anything like that ever with anyone that he or she would consider such activity a must thing in the part of their lives.....but i would agree that yeah man always loved to rule women on any cost's no matter husband or anything its pretty history that man was made to be that way if hes not gonna act the way then there is no term explaning the differences between these two human categories......now have any type of sexual activity with ur partner u like and the ones u dont wanna do u can explain by letting him know and yeah make sure there is always a rock hard reason to provide to ur husband with the condition u dont wanna go for such as oral sex.........now the best judge to maintain ur capacity of interaction is ur ownself ....with ur husband........dont make situations unexplainable and giving them terms such as DEFYING and all.........make ur relationship and lovelife more pleasure by adding some understanding towards each other equally by 50/50% on both sides.....
2007-03-27 12:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Glasswings21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my man doesnt really like oral *** so every man is different it is not the be all and end all. Your best bet is to talk o your man about it and explain why it makes you uncomfortable and work around it together
2007-03-27 00:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by spunkykpc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to have oral sex with him. Since he wants it...
2007-03-27 00:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that men like to live on the danger side...lets face it, once it is in your mouth it is so close to being bit off...don't ask me why they want it there i sure don't enjoy it....its just not meant to be there.
2007-03-27 02:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to some guys its important,but myself i like to just get onto the job.
2007-03-27 00:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything you dont want to. ofcourse he will go looking for it elsewhere.
2007-03-27 02:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋