Fems, Why is it that when you do get with a girl, the "stud" tends to act like a man- meaning, cheat lie, and hurt you- just as a man would?
Have anyone experienced this?
2007-03-26 17:21:36 · 12 answers · asked by It must be said 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Look playboy, are you a lesbian? No! so your answer was not needed. Dumb asses!
2007-03-26 17:34:02 · update #1
MEN CHEAT A HELLA LOT MORE THAN WOMEN! FACE FACTS!
2007-03-26 17:38:05 · update #2
If you never been with a "stud" than you don't know what I'm talking about. So your answer is not needed. Don't judge if you haven't been in my shoes! I address Lesbians! And for you werid *** Jesus freaks that don't know what the hell you talking about, go somewhere in pray. God always says Do NOT JUDGE! So **** off!
2007-03-26 17:41:40 · update #3
NO, I have never experienced this and very sorry that you did. Obviously your partner does not share your feelings and just isn't the one for you...Cool......move on, and find the one that deserves you....
2007-03-27 05:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by MS.MOCHA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I'm not a woman, but maybe I can shed some clarity to your situation. Now first of all, you should learn to make accurate statements, all men do not lie and cheat. So that's untrue. Secondly, a "stud" emulates herself after what she sees a male as being. She's probably taking her references from a low class perspective, and I'm pretty sure there are some higher class "studs" out there, which are mature. When you make statements and measure situations, the proper way to do such a thing is to measure from all demographics, not just the ghetto, or the high society, all! People from the ghetto, have a tendency to be pernicious. As are most homosexuals. I know this for a fact, because I was involved with a "stud" for 4 years. Personally I think they're cute, what guy wouldn't want a girl that can stand up for herself? Anyway, you really need to equate your intimate needs, and be more wise as to choose someone a little more equitable next time. Good luck.
2007-03-27 00:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by Marcus Ariel 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Never experienced that, guess I'm just lucky! Maybe it's the "studs/butches" you've been dating.
2007-03-27 01:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally it hurts but yup everyone can cheat and lie,,man or woman!!!!!!just always expect for it when ur on a relationship but dont focused on a lot of negative thoughts,,,,lesbians do think of themselves as a true guy that's the main reason why they can do what guys can do,,,,they tend to be guys and wanted to be just like guys,,,but most of the time its the straight girls that mostly cheat on their lesbian partners... but both can do it,,,,,but not as how guys hurt us girls.......
2007-03-27 00:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by just_anne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are attracting the wrong type of person to you. We generally get what we put out. Try to be the best you that you can be, work on yourself first, then you will attract good people to you.
2007-03-27 00:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by Debra G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope never experienced this. I don't think its a question of being stud or femme, it's a question of character and focus in life.
2007-03-27 06:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by luvsexhappiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I don't put up with that behavior from men or women. I can tell who's an a*** from two miles away!
2007-03-27 00:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by Pseudonym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...well i guess in my relationship I'm considered "butch" my gf is fem....i don't cheat or really act like a man..so not every butch acts that way....maybe you just have not met the right one.
2007-03-27 00:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are people and they will act and do as they wish… you can’t make someone do/be what you want them to do/be… accept them as they are and if you don’t like it leave them be…
This is Q & A not rant & rant…
2007-03-27 12:32:17 · answer #9 · answered by string1dm 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have wondered that too..and it hurts but i just move on so it`s like whatevers
2007-03-27 00:25:19 · answer #10 · answered by ღ 3SA sL33PY CaNT B3 sToPP3dღ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋