I"m pregnant and it feels like it's pulling me and my boyfriend apart. He claims that I always got an attitude and is saying bad things to him but I can't see these things that he's talking about. I don't know what to do about the situation. I know I become moody at times and I know that I can be mean but I can't control it. What do I do?
2007-03-26 17:08:19 · 6 answers · asked by beautiful_necey 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you are not alone
2007-03-26 17:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by 16 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend needs to talk to other men that are in his situation to find out that a crazy partner when pregnant is normal.
I had only been dating my husband for 3 months when i fell pregnant and not only did i have to deal with the stress of that you have to deal with the hormonal changes as well. It is a really hard time for you as all this change is going on with your body and you cannot control it most of the time.
Have you explained this to your bf? Read some pregnancy magazines together or read them to him so he has a better understanding as well. It just may be that he is scared to death on becoming a father. So talk to him try and not make it all about you (which is easy to do), as he needs some support and understanding as well.
Good luck Relationships are a constant battle to make it work. You have the added bonus of a baby coming into the world which can be really stressful. So get it right now and sort out the problems because when that baby arrives there are a whole new bunch of things to deal with.
2007-03-27 00:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to try not to stress out because that can be harmful to the baby. Pregnant women can be very mean and moody ( I know I was extremely hateful during my pregnancy). Just try to talk to him and get him to realize that your body is going through changes and you are too emotionally. Maybe if he gets an understanding of whats going on he will let up on you and not take everything to heart so much.
Congratulations and Good Luck
2007-03-27 00:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by Amber G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What pink said and I can add you must work on a relationship to work. I mean really hard for the rest of your lives.
I know from my own relationship and my old nanny. She has been married 60 yrs now. And they had to work in situations of 5 kids losing 2.. ..The depression. Tornado wiping there house away and many other things.
I asked her the secret and she said there is none really. If you love someone you work at it harder then you worked at any job.
Hope this helps some. I was one crazy woman while pregnant. You can not be half as bad as i was. So relax.
And congrats
2007-03-27 00:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by charontheloose 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a pregnancy book for you both to read. Say your sorry for being moody but your body is going through huge changes and your hormones are going nuts!
2007-03-27 07:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by jo jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this but you probably shoould of got married unwed parents usually break up
2007-03-27 00:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋