2007-03-26 17:07:11 · 15 answers · asked by meagen k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't really think a personal decision like that needs to be discussed with anyone before hand. You think he should have asked your permission before he changed his body to his liking? I don't follow that.
So how would I react? I would be surprised, most likely and curious as to why he did it and what the actual difference was and how long it would be sensitive, etc. So I would have questions and be interested in his motivation and pretty sure that I would have a day or two to get used to the idea before I was personally interacting with the new do, as it were.
Peace!
2007-03-26 17:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't.
It is his body and unless his circumcision somehow has some bearing on your life, I would not ask anyone's permission to make such a personal decision for myself either.
perhaps the fact that he did not discuss his decision with you might be what is disturbing to you.
2007-03-26 17:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by LisaLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, (being Jewish that is) I'd be glad and a little concerned about the possibility of pain and discomfort for the next two-four weeks for him. Second, I'd ask him why he felt he needed to do this. Right now, beings that this is irreversible, I'd let him know I still love him. On the flip side of this coin, I'm not a female, I'm a guy so I feel for him physcosymatically speaking that is. Were I you, I'd just hold him and let him know that I love him. He probably did it for you to start off with you know.
2007-03-26 17:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Y would he want to ask u for such a personal decision? It's his own choice. Anyway I heard circumcision is good for guys.
2007-03-26 17:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by AL75 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With all due respect to you what business is it of yours? You are not married so what interest would you possibly have in his penis or what he does with it in that regard? I really don't mean to sound harsh but I honestly don't understand where you are coming from. Would you feel the need to consult him if you decided to get breast implants or have your tubes tied? Since you aren't married to him I would hope you wouldn't feel any need to talk to him about such a thing and he shouldn't feel threatened if you didn't. I am very interested in knowing what is your thought process here so I invite you to click on my profile and e-mail me ....Good Luck!
2007-03-26 17:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by chcman74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I concur - i would suggest that it's not the circumcision that's the problem it's the fact that he doesn't think enough of your relationship to mention that he's considering it.
Talk to him...
2007-03-26 17:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by Bexsi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is his body and his decision. For him not to talk to you about it first though says that he is a selfish, self-centered man who doesn't care a lot about what you think.
It could also indicate that he has another woman on the side who wanted him to get it done. Have you discussed this with him?
2007-03-26 17:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would celebrate. Uncircumcised men are a turn off and they have more of a chance of getting AIDS, this was just proven.
2007-03-26 17:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fine. It's his body and he owuld be my boyfriend not my husband so I wouldn't own him or feel like I had any control over what he did.
2007-03-26 17:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by Saskia R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would he have to ask anyone? its his personal property, he doesn't need permission to get circumcised or pierced or anything.
2007-03-26 17:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋