i am not FAT but i do have a round butt and i have a small gut. i am pretty though, well everyone says that i am. people dont call me fat or anything i just know that i am a little over weight by my gut and cute butt. its round and not large. so is this bad? and my guts not too large but i cant wear a bikini. i can but that wouldnt be pretty.
2007-03-26 17:04:13 · 13 answers · asked by mary m 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
wieght does not matter. everyone is obsessed with the way they look but seriously, it doesn't matter. you are NOT FAT!!! and stop doubting that. you are beautiful and smart and you have friends. just focus on being the best you that you can possibly be!!!
2007-03-26 18:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by Cheer<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have to ask. You seem pretty okay with how you look. You know we all can look like anorexic super models! There are many different body types out there. I firmly believe that if you are comfortable with you little belly and your "cute" butt as you put it. The who cares what other people think. As an owner of one of those little guts i am not ashamed. You know there are different people with different tastes. What is beautiful to One person may not be to another! So NO weight doesn't matter unless there is a health issue to go along with that weight! And for the bikini thing. You know they make VERY sexy one piece bathing suits, but if you want to wear a bikini just get one with a little bit of a higher waste. And if your comfortable enough with how you look and your confident enough to wear on. Then i say GO FOR IT! I hope that this helps you..
2007-03-26 17:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by autumn_rebellion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep in mind women often have a little extra padding because we were genetically made to nourish babies in harsh times and the fat stores those nutrients. We're not meant to be angular like men. So unless you get liposuction, there's always going to be a little bit of padding...even those so-called "perfect" models have a little cellulite. FTR just because a person has a "bikini" figure doesn't mean they should wear one. Some people prefer to dress more modestly...even at the beach...and a one piece can be very classy and yes, sexy if it's cut right.
2007-03-26 17:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. All that matters is that you are happy with who you are. It sounds to me that you like who you are you just need some reassurance. As long as you are healthy and you love the skin you're in I think thats all that matters. You said you have a cute butt so that means that you like you. Personally, I wouldn't worry about what other people think.
2007-03-26 17:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by kapy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wieght matters with your health the more you wiegh the more problems that could arise, Besides that it doesnt realy matter
If you are overweight, you are more likely to develop health problems, such as heart disease, stroke, diabetes, certain types of cancer, gout (joint pain caused by excess uric acid), and gallbladder disease. Being overweight can also cause problems such as sleep apnea (interrupted breathing during sleep) and osteoarthritis (wearing away of the joints). The more overweight you are, the more likely you are to have health problems. Weight loss can help improve the harmful effects of being overweight. However, many overweight people have difficulty reaching their healthy body weight. Studies show that you can improve your health by losing as little as 10 to 20 pounds.
2007-03-26 17:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by dangel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to maintain a weight that YOU are comfortable with and that is healthy for YOU, both mind and body! Though, it sounds as if you are slightly concerned about your appearance and that maybe you are not 100% happy with how you perceive yourself. You could try to tone up sections that you are not happy with through exercise such as walking or maybe crunches. (I personally hate doing crunches!)
2007-03-26 17:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by Semicharmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'd need to see a photo of you.............I had a gastric bypass and lost 95+ pounds, still need to go another 30 and then have the tummy tuck, *** lift, boob lift, etc.............ONE OF MY SURGERIES WILL BE TO GET A ROUND BUTT...........so please, take into consideration what you want. A completelely flat non-existent but is NOT OK for me...... BUT YOU seem to want something flatter/less large/whaterver..........good for you to know that there are people who'd love to trade.
2007-03-26 17:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by Avon Lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i your BMI is in the healthy range you should be fine but you might want to work out your abs so you can lose the gut but keep the butt... hehe that rhymed!!
2007-03-26 17:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by lillakersgurly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess you are really asking "does a little weight matter to men and whether they will be attracted to me". No it doesn't matter.A little out of bikini size is A-OK. Be happy. Be fun.
2007-03-26 17:09:14 · answer #9 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there are beautiful girls in all shapes and sizes. Love urself!
2007-03-26 17:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋