When did you first know?

Question

When and how did you first know you where gay or bi-sexual.

Answer 1

When the thought became exciting!

Answer 2

I was noticing boys at least from age 6 or 7 onward, but I didn't really realize my feelings were due to an attraction until around age 11. I kind of was lying in bed and thinking (just thinking! - no other stuff yet) about some of the boys in my class, and then I thought, oh my god, does this mean I'm gay? And yeah, I was pretty sure from then on.

Answer 3

I am a 24 year old bi female. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 1.5 years and am happy. Previously, I was dating men in my past for years my whole life. i was always attracted to males and females later in high school but never acted on it. Then I met a really cool girl and wen t for it. I would date men and women now if I were to date again. I figured out late, some may say Im experimenting ( i still question it once in awhile) but I definetley am in a serious relationship so I am bi. Hope it helps, btw. its never too late to come out or explore an area wihtin yourself you've been repressing, even if your a grown adult.

Good luck!

Answer 4

I knew I was really a girl inside when I first understood the difference between boys and girls, so when I was about four or five. The feeling became very intense around eleven and twelve, but it was always there to some degree.

Answer 5

i was raised in a very conservative community, and didnt start to understand my feelings for women unitl i started dating my first girlfriend when i was just barely 19 (only about 10 months ago). i date both men and women since we have broken up. i would consider myself bi, and have probably always been attracted to girls, but more recently started to break the stereotypes and realized what these feelings ment.

Answer 6

i wanted to be just like my brother, from when i can remember to when i was 15 i was a tomboy, i dressed like a boy, had only boy toys and etc...then i was in 8th grade and had my first girl crush..just everything about her was perfect i even fantasized being with her and sexually...and my feelings are girls haven't changed since....the only thing that changed is i dont dress like a tom boy n e more, its all about the cute hair, make up and shopping.
oh and ive been with my gf for 3 yrs now

Answer 7

Looking back now, i think i was attracted to girls back when i was like 6, but obviously wasnt aware of it at the time. The attraction has continued all my life but i realised what my label was when i was about 13. Before that i thought i was a freak but soon realised and accepted myself for who i am. I am a bisexual woman and i am proud.

Answer 8

Knew at 12 or 13 years old, accepted it at 17 or 18 years old

Answer 9

When I look back now I should have know earlier but when I hit puberty and started getting aroused by men more. It took a little while to get used to but now it all makes a lot of sense.

Answer 10

I first knew when i couldn't stop thinking of other guys around me. I was probably in the sixth grade when i realized it. When you dream about guys at night, you know.

Answer 11

When my girlfriend kept flirting with me. I used to ignore it cause that wasn't me...I flirted back, and liked the attention from her, but had to be sure, so I had one last fling with a man and got nothing from it....I saw this flirtatious woman who always complimented me and just gave me what I wanted and needed. she was giving me the signs and I gave them back to her and I've been hooked every since!!!!