how can you test your best friend or how could you see if they are truely your best friend.
2007-03-26 16:53:36 · 13 answers · asked by Mickey12 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
True best friends are there when you are down. You have those so called "friends" that will ride with you as long as luck last. But when you suffer thru hard-times in life. You will see who are you true best friends. There aren't many around in our lives.
2007-03-26 16:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by anarchy0029 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, if you feel you have to test friendship without a true need , I wouldn't want to be that friend. Its when the need for a best friend is there, that is when the test should occur.
I've found that most young people are missing out on another level for possible friendship...........The aquaintance. I have many aquaintances, a few friends and one good friend.
People are too quick in designating an aquaintance as a friend.Thats one way to be disapointed real fast.
Testing friendships is wrong on an level.
2007-03-27 00:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by reinformer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only real way is to wait for something terrible to happen to you. If they know how (and when) to comfort you, and they are willing to put in the time to help you, then they are good friends.
An easy (but ineffective) approach might be to ask a third party to trash talk you when you arent around. If the friend sticks up for you, then good.
Maybe you could tell him a made up secret about yourself, and see if he spreads it around. Unfortunately, this could backfire, and you could have gossip spreading about you, so be careful with this one.
2007-03-26 23:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by Bobby S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
True best friends? That's BS! What makes a BFF your BFF is that you love them and they love you. If they really are your best friend then it shouldn't have to be proved. Plus, just because someone is your BFF doesn't mean that they have to be yours. There is no true best friend. "Best Friend" is just a lable that someone put on the friend that you love the most.
2007-03-26 23:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by stars 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time. I really don't think you should try to test them, it makes you sound insecure and untrusting.
You may prove yourself to not be a ture friend in testing them... just letting you know.
Live will bring it's own test and you will know them to be your friends then.
Time will tell
2007-03-26 23:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by Saskia R 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is very hard to find a true friend.
Anyway try and get one of your ex- boy friend's to hit on her and see if she flirts back. / Pretend to tell her a very big secret and stress to her how it must not get out, wait a few days then call around and see if she has told anyone.
2007-03-27 00:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
gurl now ur friends r friends either u luv dem or hate don't test dem or judge dem ......juz b dur 4 dem and show urself as a true friend....b-cuz if u test dem da wrong way sumthang may break-out u neva exspected ...suprizez happin' u no : ) juz wait and see how ur friendship goes and datz how u will tell
2007-03-29 01:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell them a secret that only you know the answer to. it would have to be something that would excite them enough to see if they tell it to anyone else. ask them to keep it a secret. if the secret gets back to you from someone else, then she is not a true friend.
2007-03-27 00:34:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you think they are your best friend, then you wouldn't feel the need to test the friendship. If there are trust issues, then they are obviously not your BEST friend...duh
2007-03-27 00:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by linzie4314 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you shouldn't "test" your best friend. it makes you look like you dont trust them. if they stick up for you when you're goin down, when you both are thinking the same thing but she/he says it first, or when they know you're not okay. that's a best friend.
2007-03-27 00:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋