Is it bad for your marriage? My husband and I are currently sleeping in different bedrooms, since we both have insomnia. It's been almost 6 months.
2007-03-26 16:53:16 · 27 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thats not good
its develops into a bad habit
and u guys will get used too sleeping separate
no good
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2007-03-27 05:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We have a guest bed in the room between our bedroom and the bathroom. Sometimes, I lay down on it "for a minute" when I go to the bathroom at night because the queen sized bed that my husband is sleeping in seems too far away and I "just want to rest." Well, if I'm half asleep and thinking the next room is too far to walk without a rest, guess what usually happens. I've woken up to the alarm many times trying to figure out where my husband is and/or why the alarm clock sounds so far away. I don't think it really affects our marriage because we spend plenty of weekend mornings snuggling and playing and such.
2007-03-27 00:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i feel this can be very bad for the marriage and the relationship. Six months is a long time to be sleeping in seperate rooms. Why dont you both seek medical help and attention for the insomnia and take medication if need be. You really should be in the same bed as you are married.
2007-03-26 23:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you both have insomnia, but you both can deal with it together. You need to sleep in the same bed together no matter if you can't sleep. There are ways to fix insomnia like stay away from caffeine, coffee, etc..... Get on a exercising program to do in the early mornings. If you both can't sleep, then you will be up together and sleep together.
2007-03-27 00:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something the two of you should want to go get professional help in resolving. A marriage won't last if you are acting like roommates, and there may be ways to minimize the insomnia for both of you.
2007-03-27 00:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it is. My husband is a snorer and I have insomnia. I put up with anything and everything, because there is nothing like the intimacy of even touching bodies or legs while sleeping, or trying to sleep. Doesn't have to be sexual, it's just comforting and good for a couple.
2007-03-27 10:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and i sleep in different room too, i sleep on the couch because the bed does a real number to my back. He cant sleep anywhere but the bed. Plus i am also insomina hes a light sleeper. We could solve the problem and buy a 2k mattress which wont happen. I do try to sleep with him as much as i can.
2007-03-26 23:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by the girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its bad. You get married to share evrything including the bed. Only at that place you could be close to each other after a heavy days work. If you get used to this, you will not seek each others warmeth and this might cause issues on yr marrige long term
2007-03-27 01:07:01 · answer #8 · answered by Ethen Perera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it works for you and doesn't affect your relationship, by all means, go for it... especially if you both suffer from insomnia and are likely to keep each other awake if one is sleeping and the other can't.
2007-03-26 23:59:05 · answer #9 · answered by can_you_accept_who_i_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly suggest getting professional treatment as soon as possible so that you can sleep together again. There is a great deal of intimacy (not just sexual) that you start to loose when you sleep apart for too long and it's not a good path.
2007-03-27 00:05:47 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋