I always go to my friends house to use her computer beacuase mine is real slow when it is loading, but we always hang out afterwards and we hang during school. do you consider that using her?
2007-03-26 16:34:17 · 21 answers · asked by L.Rae 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No. Friends should help each other out . If that were using her then my friends and I are in serious trouble! As long as you enjoy hanging out and doing things for each other you could be building a lifelong friendship.
2007-03-26 16:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically yes because you said "I always go to my friends house to use her computer beacuase mine is real slow." You didn't say that you go to her place to spend time with her or talk to her or hang out.
2007-03-26 23:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really. You're not "using" her for the sake of taking advantage of her (which is to her loss). You took advantage, yes, to some point. You took advantage of the opportunity of using a FRIEND'S computer because that would mean you're more comfortable asking favor from someone you know and you hangout with, than with someone you don't. As long as she's ok with it, it shouldn't bother you. Just make sure to return her favors when it's her turn to seek help from you. Friendship is mutual giving.
2007-03-26 23:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by screech 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That is called helping your friends. Maybe sometimes it'll considered as annoying someone. But as long as your friend accept you with open arms then it's no problem.
2007-03-26 23:54:50 · answer #4 · answered by Enigmatic A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you were using her you would only be her friend just to use her computer.
2007-03-26 23:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only using her if the only reason u hang out with her is to use her computer.
2007-03-26 23:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Ask yourself: was I friends before my computer went loco on me? If the answer is yes, then you are in the clear, my friend :-).
2007-03-26 23:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by gal-next-door17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not if you are hanging out with her even when you are not using her computer.
2007-03-26 23:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're still a good friend if you hang otu with her and stuff
2007-03-26 23:42:22 · answer #9 · answered by Hawaiian Missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think, what if she thought that ? And remember, it doesn't hurt to ask if you can use her computer. That's being polite.
2007-03-26 23:40:52 · answer #10 · answered by Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋