how would you deal with people who only see what's on the outside and don't bother looking on the inside

Question

of the issue

Answer 1

For something off the top of your head, as you say, it is a very good question.

The answer is let them see up close what the inside of the issue may be.

Then again, maybe you should take a step back and see what the outside may be. This is what they mean when they say you are taking matters too seriously.

But, if you want them to know what you think is the issue then you have to help them to see it.

After all, they are not mind readers.

Answer 2

You can explain the issue at length, but if the ears and mind are closed you may be wasting your time; however, sometimes I state my feelings anyway. Perhaps the person will think on my words later.

Answer 3

You tape a sign with the inside of the issue written on it to your forehead

Answer 4

I wont be mean to them, everyone has thier ways of chosing someone to be a part of thier life. All i can say is for everyone to keep an open mind.

Answer 5

Just ignore them. They are too shallow to take the time to see all sides and are therefore a waste of your time.

Answer 6

I don't bother with them, their opinion of me won't affect my life, I'm in conrtol of my emotions and feelings, i don't have to let their thoughts and opinions slip through the cracks.

Answer 7

if it was a life threatening issue I might give it thought, otherwise I just try to get along and do my little time here on earth.

Answer 8

Why would you even bother dealing with them? move forward.

Answer 9

I wouldn't. Life is too short to waste. Why bother???

Answer 10

I usually say what's on my mind but some people are hopeless like that