My parents...????

Question

My Parents have had probs and fights for a long time now. My mom thinks that my dad doesnt luv her anymore. When i or my bor do something wrong he blams it on her. My mom told me that for a long time he has tells himself and says that he picked the wrong wife. My Parents have a lot of probs. What do i do? I dont want them 2 divorce! Do they still love each other? Do u think they will get a divorce??? HELP!!!!!!

Answer 1

First, no child wants to see their parents get divorced. But, no child deserves to hear their parents fighting and arguing either. Sometimes us adults can be pretty selfish when it comes to arguing, and we can lose control sometimes and forget that what we do affects those around us. One thing you need to know, is that adult relationships are very complex. Some times adults do grow apart. Sometimes it is for the best if they seperate if they can't be around each other. There is no way for us to know if they will get divorced. Have you talked to your mom and dad and told them how hurt you are that they are fighting all the time? How it affects you? When things are calm, try talking to them about what's happening, and let them know that you need for the fighting to stop.

Answer 2

That's not for you to worry about, you just need to remember they both love you and your brother very much! The problems they have are between the two of them and not the fault of anything you and your brother have or haven't done! Look at the bright side, if they do divorce, you won't have to listen to the fights; you can enjoy each of them quietly.....