2007-03-26 15:48:18 · 34 answers · asked by slipknotchic1027 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Only if it bothers either of you- or if you're trying to get pregnant. If it IS a problem in either of those cases, you might want to suggest to your boyfriend that he take a "break" during your love-making proceedings -to delay his ejaculation to a more convenient time. :)
2007-03-26 16:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming he's not taking any drugs, drugs, alcohol abuse etc.... Can he ejaculate jointly as masturbating? If not, then there may well be a physiological venture. besides the shown fact that this is extra probably purely a psychological one, truly this is in his head... besides the shown fact that confusing to locate the reason, and remedy it. i in my opinion would desire to be any kind of issues in line along with his condition and purely he can artwork that out. All you're able to do is to be sure he's comfortable, have lots of foreplay, and don't rigidity him because of the fact of it... even once you're "encouraging" him in some way... this is probably to look which you're purely dis-happy. as quickly as you point out something to do with him not ejaculating, or something approximately it he will concentration on the venture and that'll reason nerves, which will quit him ejaculating. Oh, and if he says it is not you... then purely have faith him. Being on a self concious pitiful physique of recommendations assuming this is you will not help him.
2016-11-23 18:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by swarn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I wouldn't necessarily look at that as a bad thing. Maybe he is just so turned on by you that is overtakes him when he is with you! Try not to have a long foreplay session. Just get to the point. Now that part may not be all that great for you considering it takes women a little longer to warm up, but it could possible help him. Maybe try masturbating before you get in the room with him so you are ahead of the game & will be ready to come when he does.
2007-03-26 15:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Apparently for him, its ALL good.
If you are asking US, then I think maybe you have an issue with it and are wondering if there should be more.
So the real question is: Are you satisfied? Once he ejaculates, is there still some attention paid to YOUR sexual satisfaction?
I am not going to tell you what is good or bad for you, only you know the answer.....but more women than fewer are also interested in climaxing too with some degree of regularity. ANd in my expeirence, most men want their women to be satisfied as well.
2007-03-26 15:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Frankly he needs to try masturbating in at least 20-30 minutes sessions. Since we don't care about length of time sometime we'll masturbate for only a few minutes and it programs your body to react that way. He needs to learn to control himself. When he is masturbating and he feels like he getting ready to ejaculate tell him to quickly stop for a second a slowly start again. Over time he will know when he is about to ejaculate and will know how to slow down and control himself. If he does that his body and mind will program itself to last longer.
2007-03-26 16:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by Benjamin N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it just means he will have to work harder with his fingers or tongue to make you ***! It is not necessarily a bad thing but it is a problem and over time it should go away. You could ask him to masturbate before yall plan on having sex to make him last longer. It really comes down to is it a problem for you? If you are still getting pleasure and his premature ejaculation is not bothering you then don't worry about it!
2007-03-26 15:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by xocharlixo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its not a bad thing. Its just something you both have to work with. There are other things, techniques and foreplay that can be employed before the gun goes off.
2007-03-26 15:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a bad thing for you, but it is typical for males.
He is just a little excited and eager. Try having him sexually pleasure himself first, or sexually pleasure him yourself and then engage in intercourse, when he is ready. At this time he should be able to remain effective longer.
2007-03-26 15:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by Dan S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
early like before he gets home...cause thats a problem...he doesnt ride the bus does he? To be safe ill just walk for a while til you get this sorted out...
2007-03-26 15:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well that does not meet your needs, does it? Try squeezing his tube when he's about to come. Eventually, he'll acquire more capacity.
2007-03-26 15:52:22 · answer #10 · answered by robertspraguejr 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋