And if they do, does this compromise who they are? If a woman likes to have unconventional sex that she enjoys and not coerced into, is it still degrading.
2007-03-26 15:43:03 · 21 answers · asked by NativeAtlantean 5 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Yes!!!!! Here's the thing about A LOT of women: We don't like to be dominated in our everyday life but we love being dominated in the bedroom (or at least I do)!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And no, it's not degrading as long as the woman is doing it because she wants to and NOT because she wants to please the guy.
2007-03-26 15:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by Caribbean Belle 6 · 11⤊ 1⤋
1). Unconventional doesn't necessarily mean a domination game.
2). What people like and what people think is not linked, even though it can correspond. Thoughts are rational, feelings are not. You cannot force yourself to like something out of a principle, and that's when you do that you become inconsequent to yourself.
3). Unconventional sex means obviously sex without any convention. Even individual conventions are conventions. If it is established beforehand that sex is a domination game and who is going to be dominated, this can't be so unconventional. Unconventional sex presupposes a certain grade of improvisation.
4). Some people like to dominate at times, and be dominated at others. This is a feeling, not an idea.
2007-03-27 09:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by illnessindustry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, some mentally strong women do enjoy being dominated sexually. And no, this does not compromise who they are, it is an expression of what they at times enjoy.
Why would a non-coercive sexual relationship be degrading? It is the qualifiers that we put on sex... it's when we, as a society, try to designate a 'norm' for each gender... that healthy personal expression between consenting adults becomes vilified.
2007-03-27 00:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mikisew 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Some yes, depends on the personality of the female involved. No, it does not compromise who they are, they are strong intelligent females, they know what they want. No not degrading to me at all. However, I can only answer for myself. Love a strong, powerful man. God bless****
2007-03-27 08:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, strong women do not like to be dominated by men sexually, if we're speaking in generalizations. Some people, though, are submissive ... some are dominant. It doesn't matter what sex you are. I'm a (mentally and physically) strong woman and I despise the thought of a man trying to dominate me in sex ... but I'm me. It's an individual thing ... gender has nothing to do with it.
2007-03-27 14:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by Cristy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Some do, definitely. I don't know of any who feel compromised by this, it's just sexual play. Always keep in mind that quite a few women do things just because her man likes it. They enjoy the sex but are not necessarily motivated by submissive needs.
2007-03-27 12:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If a women likes something in the bedroom i think that's irrespective of her mental strength.
Degredation is defined as 'to deprive of self-esteem or self-worth'. If she is enjoying herself i don't think this is depriving her of anything.
I'm not sure what exactly you mean by mentally strong as i personally would define most women with this adjective.
I think whatever a woman is like in the bedroom this is part of who she is. I don't think she is comprimising her values by being who she is.
For me being letting my man take control is my way of letting go - particularly after a day of taking control in my work and social life.
2007-03-26 23:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by Bexsi 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
nope end of story and that is all I wrote and trust you me I am strong. What mean is I find it enjoyable and no I do not feel degraded. It;s a frame of mind, at least to me it is.
oh yeah, I forgot to mention I don't go for that feminism stuff.
2007-03-27 10:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it has elements of sexism, yes. She didn't just pop out of the womb with a predisposition for liking to be called a slut (for instance), it's negative, horrible socialization.
2013-09-25 20:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by a girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it just depends on the person. some like being in control. is it degrading, yea in other people's point of view. but if she's comfortable with her stuff then ..I o no
2007-03-26 22:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋