If someone makes u upset, do u tell them? or do u wait for them to figure it out?

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i alweys try to tell people if im mad at them!! i thenk cause i got too many cold shoulders an not a clue why...!!

Answer 1

I rarely get mad at anyone, as I dont associate closely with many people. When they do upset me, I do not hesitate in letting them know how I feel.

Answer 2

I always say what's on my mind! If I'm mad at someone for something that they did, they should know about it so they don't end up doing the same thing again. Or else they'd just make me angry again for doing the same sh*t all over again. So yeah i let people know if I'm mad or angry or happy or whatever I'm feeling.=)

Answer 3

I tell everyone where I am coming from. This does include if I am mad with them as well as the reason I am mad at them.

Answer 4

I absolutely make it known immediately - I absolutely loathe when people just storm off and dont talk to you for days, as if you're a mind reader - so I never do that to people.

Answer 5

telling them is best
because they might not even know they did anything, and then how could they be expected to figure it out?

if i made someone mad, i would want to know, not have to try and guess.

Answer 6

I usually tell people and get over it. I can't stand holding a grudge takes to much of my energy.

Answer 7

I tell them firmly and gently what is wrong,if they choose not to listen and get bent out of shape,I walk away and do something different!

Answer 8

of course, im not letting them get away with it, they should know so they don't do it again. I want someone to tell me if i have upset them so i could fix it.

Answer 9

I confront it immediately so it doesn't get weird. Unless it's something that's not a big deal then I can just let it go.

Answer 10

Yeah I tell people how I feel. I don't want to have it pent upinside and be stressed out.