He dumped me a month ago because of our distance, he can't feel me anymore. But i still want him. How to win him back??
2007-03-26 15:13:14 · 38 answers · asked by fede 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-04-03 10:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming this was a long distance relationship? His reason for breaking up may very well have been sincere, that it was too hard for him to have you so far away. Men handle emotions differently than we do. Yet they hurt and feel just as much. If it was a long term relationship and you both have the opportunity to have this open for discussion, then see what both of your options are to make it work or compromise. You should be sure that he didn't use the distance as a cop out or excuse. Is he cross country or cross town...keep that in mind. If someone doesn't want to be with you, why bother. You didn't give too much detail about the length of the relationship or distance between you 2. Good luck.
2007-03-26 15:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by longislanddoll75 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl...I went through the same thing about 6 months ago. He was my first love but he broke up with me for some silly reason, distance being one one and not liking my profession of architecture as the other...Can you imagine. Anyways, I thought I'll never get over it, my heart was pounding out of my chest and I couldn't sleep... But thank goodness for good friends and school work...I'm all fine now and can't believe I cried over him...
This being said...think about it, think about how you are portraying yourself...Love will not leave you hanging girl friend. He apparently doesn't respect and value you for who really are...are you just physical to him...? If he was really into you he will find a way to probably plan you guys visiting each other. If he was really passionate about you he will try everything in his ability to see you as much as he needs you ...
Girl ...he's just not it...Life is too short to entertain silly excuses...!!! and you are more than that...I don't know why we girls are always vulnerable to silly guys...
I guess this doesn't answer how you can get him back...!!!
2007-03-26 15:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by chomie3 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a good idea. If he dumped you he probable had a reason. But if you insist on getting him back DON'T follow him around constantly. DON'T act like you need him. And DON'T be jealous of him and his new dates or anything like that. In fact, be mature and talk to him once in a while. Call him once in a while to have friendly conversations. But don't flirt a whole lot or be too obvious. Make yourself seem confident and over him so he'll want you back again.
2007-03-26 15:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by maxine g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no for sure way to win him back that is guaranteed to work. The only thing you really can do right now is give him his space, he is going to need time to handle the breakup in his own way. You could always talk to him about the breakup eventually and see if you stand a chance of getting back together in his opinion, but if he says no there isn't much you can do about it.
2007-03-26 15:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by softballgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear he dump you . but he,s over you and moved on with his life best you do the same . lets say you did get him back 1out of 100 it won,t work out any way .if he wanted you he would not have broken it off be tween you two so move on find some one that love you and be there for you no matter what but remember all ways be care full there are nutty people out there best of luck
2007-04-01 10:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is because of distance then your probable not gonna get him back. If you call him and try to set up a date and he refuses then just move on. There are more fish in the sea
2007-04-03 03:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Long-distance relationships are the hardest to maintain. Don't blame yourself if this is an impossible situation. Just appreciate that and close this chapter in your life and move on to the next chapter.
2007-04-03 10:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother! I have done the same thing in the past and got the man back. Then all of the sudeen, I didn't want him anymore. Kind of like like, "who the hell does he think he is making me want him and making me try so hard". Don't waste your time. Love comes easy. It's not something you win!
2007-03-26 15:27:03 · answer #9 · answered by pooty36 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he dumped you its probably because he doesnt want the relationship to continue. so he probably wont want to be with you again. its tuff but u gotta let go. if u still wanna try u could try doing things that he liked about u in the first place and make him see what he lost. but I dont think its worth it. find someone else who will love u.
2007-04-03 14:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email him a picture with a really good looking guy with you. Watch how fast he calls! Tell him then you are busy, and will call back maybe next summer!
2007-03-26 15:18:31 · answer #11 · answered by Credit Expert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋