im 17 years old and pregnant but the father is 30 years old how do i tell my aunt or uncle or anyone else that im pregnant(my aunt and uncle are my guardians)....being pregnant at 17 is bad enough but the father being 30 puts more pressure on it...the father is responsible and is helping me in every way but i still dont know how to tell my family any advice???
2007-03-26 15:11:31 · 5 answers · asked by icepops 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Thats a tough one. Well, it happens. Just don't get too worked up though! A baby is always a blessing, always remember that. Just sit them down, take a good deep breath, and tell them. Expect the worst, just in case and be prepared for it if they decide to kick you out. Make sure you have a safe place to go. But I don't think they'll do anything near that drastic. The sooner you tell them, the sooner they'll accept it and actually look forward and be excited about it! Keep your wits about you, and remember in a year from now all this will be behind you and you'll have a beautiful little baby who loves you like crazy!
2007-03-26 15:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by boo kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought women were pregnant with babies not full grown men.
Anyway, I would recommend at least telling your aunt and uncle you are pregnant. When a baby starts to show, they'll figure it out and then feel they were deceived if you didn't tell them.
As far as telling them that the father is 30, I don't really know what you should do because it would depend on what kind of people your aunt and uncle are. Most people I would recommend being open an honest, but if they are the type of people who would literally kill you for this then I wouldn't.
Many towns have a help line for pregnant teens, single mothers, or teen mothers. I would recommend calling one these places for advice or maybe a local hospital or clinic can refer you to someone for advice.
2007-03-26 15:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mark A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm if he is responsible, you wouldn't be pregnant because responsible 30 year olds don't have sex with 17 year olds, if you are having trouble with telling your family, then I'm guessing you are not out on your own as an adult, but rather still at home like a child? I suggest you be honest, and speak with your aunt first, she will be the best judge of how to break it to your uncle. I suggest the guy stay away until things cool down if they don't know you have been dating.
2007-03-26 15:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you just nead to tell them do fret to much i dont think thats to bad i was 16 wen i got pregnant with my first baby and my partner was 24 not as big a age gap but i dont think u nead to worry just let ya aunt and uncle know!
2007-03-26 21:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by kirsty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well atleast your legal to sleep with him at 17 (in my state anyways). All you can do is be honest.
2007-03-26 15:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by Brie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋