im asking on p&s,because this is where my freinds are !!!! i have fallen into a comp. relationship with someone who is everything one could want,,and more ?? she feels the same about me ,i think ? but tonight we realized that due to the distance between us we will likely never meet... she means the world to me, but i don`t want her to feel tied down..she deserves much more.. how do you say bye bye to someone who has seriously stole my heart and soul ???i only wish her happiness,,even if it`s without me !!!! please, what to do ????
2007-03-26 15:11:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
This makes me cry.....I know she feels the same way about you.. maybe the distance between you two... hurts her...sounds like you love her very much.. and she loves you very much...I would say continue the relationship... and see what god brings you...sounds to me you two are soul mate's for each other... please don't tell her bye... don't give up... i'm sure she doesn't want to... It saddens my heart that two people fell in love and only want to be with each other, but the distance makes it problem.... hold on... anything can happen..It sounds like to me you two would give anything to be with each other.... maybe.. you two can make that happen.. I pray that this works out.... sounds to me she wants to be with you... i don't think she worried about being tied down...It hurts to want something so bad... that's not in your arms... she needs you...god willing you may someday get to meet...
Best of luck.... all my love to you... god bless you.... make her yours.....
2007-03-26 20:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Man, let me tell you from experience, long distance relationship just do not work. You need someone there for you in person, not just words on a screen, or a picture. I'm sure you two mean alot to each other...but if she was willing to get into a online relationship with you, who says she hasn't in the past with someone else....or wont again. Move on. Block her from you messenger contacts, block her email..and after a 2 week period you will realize time solved everything. It's going to hurt her, but what would be worse? Doing it this way, or actually meeting in Life...then seeing it didnt work and having to end it.
Here is some advice, dump the online love...turn off the PC and go out and find ya someone you can actually have a real relationship with....and then your online g/f will be a memory.
Good luck, and remember....just do it quick and walk....
2007-03-26 22:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by wisconsindeathtrip03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shylow I can't believe how insensitive most of the answers have been, sweety, true love can conquer all if it's ment to be, why can't you meet, why are you saying "BYE BYE" to some one you say you care for so much, I would move heaven and earth if it bought me closer to my soul mate...we are now married by the way and it was hard in the begining being apart for long stretches at a time, but I knew he would remain faithful as did I, every one has needs be it emotional or physical, the emotional can be taken care of by friends and family and the physical can be taken care of yourself (LOL) until you are together again, true love is rare, don't just give up, if she means as much to you as you say then you have to try every thing to make it work. Good luck, if you do go after her, love her like there is no tomorrow, never go to sleep angry with each other, and make the last words you say to her each time you leave the (room, house, state, what ever)
I LOVE YOU !!!!!!!, Let me know how it goes and ignore those who don't understand true love.
2007-03-26 22:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by The Boss 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say find a way to make it happen! If it's really love you can move. Why good bye? Even if it took a year or two how fast does that fly? Your going to waste that time trying to meet someone to fill those shoes... One let down after the other.
I do not know you. Why would you let love go? Fight for what you want! All my best to both!
:)
2007-03-26 22:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by ~ tina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure there is no way you two can get together. I feel so bad for you. Maybe you can try a long distance relationship for awhile and maybe in the future something will change and you can be together. Good Luck!!
2007-03-26 22:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by newfiemomma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's really sad.My heart goes out to you both.I would just be honest with her and tell her how you feel.Tell her that you want her to be happy if that means that your heart is broken.True feelings that come from the heart is the best.Good luck and may you have happiness in your heart again,xx xx
2007-03-27 11:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the the same ? i speak to her on the phone, but only at her work, she never answers her, yet I can't let her go. I. just this Sunday, told myself the heck with it. Until I hear from her, she is gone from my life
2007-03-26 22:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How is distance an obstacle to true love unless you are a minor?
2007-03-26 22:14:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep in touch at least.. don't put any pressure on her, but keep in touch and in time she may change her mind. However, don't spend for ever waiting for her if the tides don't turn. Time heals all wounds. Pray about it and God will be sure to guide you! God bless you!
2007-03-26 22:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by chanteuse87 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would try to see her somehow even if it takes a while, don't give up, and stay in touch
2007-03-26 22:16:59 · answer #10 · answered by d☻min☺ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋