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Question

Everytime i wake up I have to go to the bathroom obviously.. Well i wake up with horrible pains in my back and sides it takes me a minute to get the strength to even get up cause it hurts so bad. Well last night was really bad. My room is upstairs.. As i was trying to walk down to the bathroom i fell to my knees from the pain in my back and sides, i almsot fell down the stairs.. My father came running outta the room..

This is an everytime i have to go to the bathroom thing, I have to go and i just get horrible lower back pains that keep bringing me to tears.. I dont think i can take another week to 3 weeks of it! My mom told me to go to the bathroom more often, well im already going almost every half n hour.. n everytime its a sudden urge making me have to run in there.. and if someone is in there i will almost pee in my pantss!! It seriously sucks! And i cant help it when i have to go in the middle of the night..!

Do you guys know y this is happenin. wut can i do?

Last week my urine was perfectly fine she said..

Another problem I am really stressing otu about is, Im a tiny girl, Well i have always measured @least 2cm's bigger than what i was suppose too.. Well im measuring 43 cm's and i havent seen my doctor is 2 weeks.. I called them today saying i thought i should get a sonigram sinc ei havent had one since i was 16 weeks! and they said no cause my 16 week sonigram he was fine? Should i fight mroe about this cause im worried about having a really big baby.. when i was 16 weeks, they say he was 11 oz. i looked it up and my baby should of only been about 6 oz!! what do you guys think?

Answer 1

I would try pushing the issue that they look into this further. You could have kidney stones, kidney infection, or any number of things that are causing such pain. Unless I overlooked it, I didn't see anywhere where you mentioned how far along you are. If your doctor hasn't done so yet, I would go ahead and push for a glucose tolerance test, because just prior to finding out I had gestational diabetes, I had a lot of kidney troubles myself. But I am guessing you are possibly further along in your pregnancy?
I would certainly have them do another ultrasound. If they don't want to, and I hate to say this, but the next time you are in this excruciating pain, go to the hospital ER and tell them exactly what you are feeling and that you are concerned something is wrong with your baby. They will likely run several tests, but will possibly also check in on your little one and make sure he/she is okay.
I don't understand why your doctor hasn't already looked further into this level of pain with urination...yes, everything can be very uncomfortable particularly in later pregnancy, but this sounds more like something serious may be wrong and should definitely not be ignored....you don't want to be going into labor and having some type of serious infection going on in your body at the same time. Sometimes you just have to be a real ***** with doctors, and let them know that even though they see tons of pregnant women each and every day, that doesn't mean your individual situation and concerns are unimportant, or something to be blown off. Doctors know a high stress level can have some of the worst negative effects on a pregnant woman than anything else, and being truly scared and not knowing what is wrong is certainly an elevation in stress.
Like I said, if all else fails, go to the hospital ER and tell them what you are experiencing, and that you are very concerned that something serious is wrong.
Best of luck to you!