were together 5months - got serious - and he decides to break up cause he had someone else on him mind- I said cool - and 2 weeks later I decided to date someone else i was interested in - he calls me, and starts calling me names, and when i said I loved him, says he does not... I ended that, and started talkin 2 him again, and he gets all shallow and sayin stuff again.... So i leave!!
he shifted countries for his job - calls me a few days later - He's met someone who he's been in love with for 4yrs and He is sorry abt the way i feel for him......
2 months later - gets back with me - 15 days later - gets to to tell him my deepest secret and then decides that I cant be with him cause of this - So i leave...
He flies back to country - 3 months later
begs for us to meet up - I dodged him the 15 days he was in town, and said NO!! not happening - However I wished him on his birthday.... He did not bother on mine!!
2007-03-26 14:52:03 · 12 answers · asked by Jane M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
contacted my ex after 3 months - after this
i decided to just say hi online -
1st he was very nice to me, and then after sometime, he started to act crazy - he started name calling - he said i was crazy - and then said he is in love with a new women - Not the one he was in love with Last year - I gave it back to him, I gave him a piece of my mind - cause he put me through all this....
however I just don't know why he behaved this way, or what i did to deserve this??
he was so rude,
My question is - I am feeling lost, and like i may never want another one of these things again - cause its devastating - however, I do need to move on - he's been playing with my feelings for 6 months - What do i do? whats your advice and opinions? help please - advice please..
2007-03-26 14:55:26 · update #1
Sounds like he's using you for a booty call! Don't answer your phone next time he calls you.
2007-03-26 14:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem as though you enjoyed this lil game of his! Things started out as a game. You should have seen this a long time ago. In the future you need to learn to let the bull go and not tolerate it. Now all you can do is go on. don't worry about wishing him happy bday and all of that. Meet new people and focus on a career. And stop letting men do you like that. He seems really crazy but I could say the same about you because you allowed him to be that way!
2007-03-26 15:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 00:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, not really what I would think of as a relationship. A real relationship involves trust, not running off with other people; it involves reciprocity, not one party saying I love you and the other one saying I don't. Sounds like you're better off without him!
2007-03-26 14:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by kittenpie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you he will come to you . Tell you then settle in. Its time for him to make a decision for both of you. If he doesn't want to live w/ you thats ok he will take it slow but he needs to give you some kind of proff that he does care for you & to stop pretending. He sounds quite selfish b/c he doesn't see you care for him.
2007-03-26 15:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl first of all, People will do to US what we allow THEM to DO. You allowed him to do all of those things, so he continued to do them. You were in a relationship alright, the Worst kind. Its best you have cut your ties with this man, yall would never have made it last together.
2007-03-26 15:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like lot of drama be glad its over move on your young there is someone out there that will treat you better .
2007-03-26 14:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by kedra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun im sorry but hes a childish ***, you owe this clown nothing!
there are Real men out there that will love you for the real you!
do not accept anything less!
2007-03-26 15:09:35 · answer #8 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as the screw turns for the young and the hopless
2007-03-26 14:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by aggadan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jane don't waste your time even thinking about him.
2007-03-26 14:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋