My friend is acting like a jerk wat should i do?

Question

Well he is or was one of my best guy friends like we would talk on the phone like 2 or 3 times a day....and now he is actin weird like he tells people that he talks on the phone with me and that i call him too much when i never do...he calls me. Now He acts like a jerk when we are around ppl...but wen we are alone he is like flirtin and wont stop talkin to me... What should i do?? i mean considerin he was one of my best friends

Answer 1

I believe your guy friend is falling in love with you and doesn't know how to tell you that's why he is acting very weird. He probably think that if you know how he feels about you, your friendship will deteriorate Why dont you sit down with him and talk it out with him about what is causing his weird actions. This might just solve both of your dilemmas.

Answer 2

well sounds like a problem. i mean the way i would handle it is make him real mad by not returning his calls or even going up to him in school and say stop calling my house all the time. but see that would be me. but the other thing is to mjust let him be him b/c ppl do tend to act that way now a days. and they will be jerks and so much more. so how about you just sit back and relax while he sweats on that whole thing.

Answer 3

Well one of the reasons might be because he likes you, i know it seems impossible cuz u guys have been friends for probably ever.
Its possible he might also need just some space try not to depend on him for everything and when and if he says he does like you the big question is do you lke him as more than a friend

Answer 4

Your "best friend" likes you more than just a friend. If u like him in that special way you should tell him. If not, he will probaly be crushed, Its not your fault, many girls have this problem. Let him know you don't appreciate how he acts when in public, He's being disrespectful! and thats not what "friends" do!

Answer 5

the same thing is happening to my sister. All I can say is that you should tell him how you feel and tell him that if he doesn't stop acting this way he's going to lose one of the very best friends he's ever had. Hate to say that but sometimes that's what happens.

Answer 6

tell him he has to pick either be friends with you or don't and talk make up stuff about you

one of my best friends tht is a girl has lately been gettin mad at me for nothin, i kept tryin to get back to how it used to be but it doesnt work, and so now im just basically not talkin to her anymore, even though it breaks my heart if i keep tryin to be friends with her it will just get broken even more

she basically is only nice to me if her other friends aren;t around or if i give her somethin, so now i just ended it and it workin pretty nice

Answer 7

he soo likes u and u don't even notice it, in my opinion thats why he's acting like that, 4 love, have u realized that sometimes he acts like he want more of ur friendship? trust me, i think he does, or maybe its the other people who makes him do that things, but well i think u want a solution, what about a str8 talk 2 him about this, or the ice law, whatever makes u confortable

Answer 8

He probably still likes you but wants people around you to think he's better than you. You need to talk directly to him, but don't start accusing immediately, or he'll become extremely defensive and won't listen at all. If that doesn't work give up; people change.

Answer 9

be up front and ask him whats up. dont be shy about it. say "ur acting like a jerk why are you doing this? did i do something? if you dont whant 2 be around me then i would like to know now"

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Answer 10

When people act differentley when you are in a group than alone that is a sign of instability in that person. Let him know that he acts strange when in a group. I have observed this in people my whole life.