Hes always been curious to try my pantyhose. He has always complimented me and paid extra attention to how my legs look when I wear my sheers to the office for work or out for dinner etc. Part of me was unsure about letting him try at first. But I'm also thinking why not, if hes so curious, let him give it a try to experience how it feels. I'm really glad that hes confided in me with this, so Im leaning towards letting him do it as a reward in my own mind for being so open with me. Hes a wonderful husband and we have been married for about 9 years, and hes been really supportive of my feelings and career, etc. Just wondering what some of the other women out there think of letting him try or have similar expereinces.
2007-03-26 14:31:25 · 12 answers · asked by debbiebarns43 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Since you seem to be a happy, committed and trusting relationship I say go for it.
2007-03-26 14:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by ecogeek4ever 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It can be a number of things. It may be a fetish. Nothing wrong with that. Puts some spark into the life.
It may be that he likes the feel of them. Many men are beginning to learn how great they can feel and why not wear them. There are a few manufacturers who have realized this and are now producing pantyhose for men. Like Comfilon, Wo-Man, etc. But they tend to be way over priced.
Another reason, like in my case, I suffer from chronic leg pain. Light support pantyhose helps eliminate that pain and helps me move more freely. Light support pantyhose also helps with circulation in the legs as well. Many truck drivers wear them just for that reason because they tend to be sitting all day with out having the chance to get up and move around.
Men have worn hose years before women did. Look at them as form fitting pants and have fun with it.
2007-03-28 09:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure let him. Then go buy a pair of crotchless pantyhose and let him wear those... That would seem to be more fun-for both of you.... Maybe you can wear matching pantyhose...
Sounds like he just wants to fool around with you...
You could solve the whole thing by throwing out your pantyhose and start wearing a garter belt with stockings. Then, if he wants to try them on, he may have a problem...
2007-03-27 04:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by Movinonup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I wouldn't be too worried if he just wants to try on my pantyhose but if he wants to borrow any of my clothes to meet his boyfriend, well that is another story. I have a friend whose husband always likes to wear her fuzzy robe and slippers. He says they are really comfortable and warm. I've been over there when he came sashaying out of the bedroom in her robe and slippers. What a sight! They are both fine with it. Too bad they don't make warm fuzzy clothing for men!
2007-03-26 15:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cross dressing freaks me out because I don't understand the motive behind it.
I was once with a guy for about 7 years--until I found out he cross dressed, and had other sexual issues,too.
I don't have anything against men cross dressing, but I don't want a partner who cross dresses, either.
I have to agree with Mastermonos, though.
If you are man enough to want to try it, be man enough to own it.
So, to each their own, I guess.
good luck
2007-03-26 15:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by Croa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just clothing. Besides, they make pantyhose for men now. Don't look too deeply in to it - he's just expressing himself. Pantyhose are great to wear, no matter what your gender. It's actually becoming more and more commonplace for men to wear hosiery.
Check out http://www.comfilon.com
2007-03-27 09:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
let him try it might stop the curiousity there and dont beat around th bush AFTER hes tried them on ask about the whole cross dressing thing why he wanted to try them was it was just for fun and honestly has he done anything like this before be glad he told you and you didnt arrive home to a suprise, for all you no he may like them because they remind him of you, dont make excuses for him just talk you seem open people, and dont listen to the negetive comments posted those people obviously have issues with emotions and being open and honest
2007-03-26 15:05:58 · answer #7 · answered by just_looking thanx 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
LMAo... ummm... I love it how the guys make a profile that sounds like a woman... then come on here asking if its ok if their friend or husband or whatnot wants to be a cross dresser, just so they can get some support. As if when a woman says its ok to want to wear her clothes your fetish is then justified.
Just do it... quit pretending like its your hubby.
2007-03-26 14:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by Cameron 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It's ok, I hear some of the best, most generous men who are comfortable with their sexuality dress up in women's things. Men's clothes are boring and just suck anyway.
2007-03-26 17:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by brightstar65 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like it I love it. Who am I to judge. However, for me personally, I would be a little freaked out by this behavior, I am not sure i would be so calm. However, this is your life, if you are ok with it and he is ok with it. No one else really matters. Good luck and God bless****
2007-03-27 01:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋