Hes always been curious to try my pantyhose. He has always complimented me and paid extra attention to how my legs look when I wear my sheers to the office for work or out for dinner etc. Part of me was unsure about letting him try at first. But I'm also thinking why not, if hes so curious, let him give it a try to experience how it feels. I'm really glad that hes confided in me with this, so Im leaning towards letting him do it as a reward in my own mind for being so open with me. Hes a wonderful husband and we have been married for about 9 years, and hes been really supportive of my feelings and career, etc. Just wondering what some of the other women out there think of letting him try or have similar expereinces.
2007-03-26 14:30:03 · 19 answers · asked by debbiebarns43 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So a girl can wear a mans boxers - but he can't wear your pantyhose? I say have fun with it. Get into his closet... Spike your hair... Switch roles for a night. Whoever is the aggressor - be passive. Have fun with it and enjoy the fact that after 9 years you aren't on here asking how to leave. I guarantee you it took him at LEAST 2 years to get the courage up to ask about it. He's probably already tried them on... Love your mate!
2007-03-26 14:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by lucki female 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with it. Many men wear pantyhose. In fact, there are a few companies that make pantyhose just for men. But they are over priced.
Buy him a pair or two and have fun with it.
2007-03-28 16:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be likened to King Arthur taking his magic sword out of the stone and accidentally killing his fellow knight. People have a fascination with being able to cut through liquid as a way of feeling powerful and magical. Limbs are perceived as levers. They become an object of jealousy (I'm guessing your hubby's having a hard time of it at work and feels like he's swimming) and perhaps even the solution. It won't work for long though. It'll be something else next.
I personally don't have a problem with men trying on stockings. They used to wear breeches and everything. Page boys at weddings still might.
I'm going to recommend Matthew 5:43, 44. Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.
If I'm right about what's causing your husband's interest in your stockings, you might be needing to deal with a few enemies soon. If love is the lever, then your enemies are the fluid (See Isaiah 57:20). If your enemies are the lever, then love is the fluid. (I'm talking about personal charity here! Strictly clean!) Proverbs 25:15 says: "Through patience a ruler can be persuaded, and a gentle tongue can break a bone."
2007-03-26 21:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by courage 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
So whats the big deal? What you two do is up to you. What I want to know is why you would do this as a "Reward"? He could do it without you knowing you do not have to "Let him" do it. Now a reward would be giving him a nice long *insert what you would like*
2007-03-26 21:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I say go ahead and let him. Just be prepared that he may be sharing with you because he trusts you as his spouse and feels comfortable enough to tell you anything. He may soon want to try other things. Decide now how that would make you feel. If you think you can handle it then go for it.
2007-03-26 21:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
omg you want to let him wear womens Pantyhose? I'm sorry but he's in the early stages of becoming a pervert! it is not at all normal what so ever for a "real" man to want to wear womens things, and if you condone this nasty stuff, you may be slipping as well, how do I know all this? My neighbor started the same thing, hes now a convicted child molester1
2007-03-26 21:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by rpoker 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
well... for other people they may think that your husband has a secret about his real personality.. but for others they may admire your husband for being completely honest to you. you should feel great because that is only a manifestation that your husband is very comfortable with you. furthermore, it's a start for new discoveries and surprises in your relationship because you have been together for 9 years already...
2007-03-26 21:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by enigmaticenegue 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I put on my wife's lipstick sometimes. No big deal. My wife is the one that actually came up with the idea to make me over like a woman just to see what I would look like. She says I have a pretty face that she just had to put makeup on.
Seriously, my wife gets turned on when I put on lipstick before we make love. It's one of her fetishes.
2007-03-26 21:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt worry about it.. and despite what some of the idiots on here think it does not mean he will go on to molest children. Its an interest like anything else... maybe it will spice up your love life, maybe he will not like it... who knows.. Go with it and find out. Good luck and have fun. :)
2007-03-26 21:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by PenguinsWife 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is good that he can talk to you about it and you not get up set. I think what goes on between a man and wife, especially if it is good communication and love is between them. If you are okay with this, it is fine. Have fun.
2007-03-26 22:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by shyone 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋