To paint you a picture. I am 22 (Female) and live very happily with my boyfriend who i have known since we were three, he is 21. He owns and operates several businesses with his father. They own a gym, a nightclub and an imprt and export company amongst others.
My boyfriend (Phil) works extremy hard and is always dashing around, sometimes 24 7. Recently I have noticed a big change in him. He seems to not want to talk to me about much, he seems always exhausted and I can feel us drifting apart. I understand that he is driven by money and success but whenever I try to speak to him and tell him to calm down he gets annoyed and it causes an argument...This is a pic of us taken last year
www.i62.photobucket.com/albums/h119/wwecwcw02/ZacAshleyCuteCouple.jpg
I can see that he doesnt look well lately and he seems to be only getting worse and taking on more and more work. Yesterday I found some pills in a jacket pocket of his which I have learnt are speed. His father is retireing soon.
2007-03-26 14:29:02 · 9 answers · asked by Calm 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
http://i62.photobucket.com/albums/h119/wwecwcw02/ZacAshleyCuteCouple.jpg
This is us last year
2007-03-26 14:38:18 · update #1
i would confront him about the speed and it might be hard but you have to work through it. Talking about it may cause a fight, but in order to solve your problems, you have to work it out.
ok that picture that you added isnt you and him it is ashley tisdale and zac efron lol anyway good luck!!!
2007-03-26 14:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by lillizzybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you and Phil are a cute couple and have known each other for awhile think back was there ever a hardship through Phils life that turned him into doing risky dangeous behavior. I encorauge you to talk to Phil about this even though it may seem hard if he doesnt I would go his father. He may need some proffesional help for speed if it has been long term usage it may be a shock but his life is very stressful and needs all the support he can get
good luck
Liz
2007-03-26 21:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Izzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, what a CUTE couple!
Well, I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. It sounds like he's having trouble dealing with some family issues and has turned to drugs. That's too bad.
Well, maybe you can talk to a close friend of his, or a family member and let them know you're concerned about him.
Although the signs point to drug use; it hasn't yet been confirmed. So be careful not to rattle anyone's cage.
Lack of appetite,staying awake for days, are definite signs of drug use.
Well, I wish you well.
Hope things get better 4U.
2007-03-26 22:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy needs help pronto. He doesn't sound mature enough to handle these responsibilities. I think that his dad needs to remain involved in day to day company operations. Phil is beginning a downward spiral... I'll bet drug use is what's ruining your relationship. I wish you the best and warn you to stay away from a tighter relationship with this guy. Sorry to be so negative but I've seen it all before.
2007-03-26 21:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by Neil L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has an increasingly worse drug problem. You should talk to him, and if he refuses to listen, stage an intervention with his closest friends and family. It's probably the lifestyle he lives and how busy he is that he feels the need to use a little "pick-me-up" from time to time. But it's likely that with the change of his personality, he is using all the time. You definately need to talk to him.
2007-03-26 21:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by insideout72 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the link 4 the pic doesnt work. he is probably in over his head and worn out, hense the speed. He needs to slow down before he just burns himself out.
2007-03-26 21:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by tara b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
intervention. bad or good either way it is to benefit him. look seriously at your relationship future. if he doesn't relize that your there for him, it's on him. someday he may think back and see how much time you spent dealing with his issues. not a good atmosphere for a growing relationship. bar nightclub drugs. watch yourself and be careful.
2007-03-26 21:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by reedt36 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a normal man he feels he is doing what id best for you guys by making money he does not realize he is killing you both
2007-03-26 21:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by cora7391 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am i the only one that's seeing a picture of zac efron when i click the link?
2007-03-26 21:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by alysssaa. 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋