I recently had sex for the first time but it hurt so bad i made the guy stop. Why did it hurt and what can i do so it wont hurt?
2007-03-26 14:16:43 · 11 answers · asked by racer_chick3 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
1st time hurts 2nd time still hurts it takes a few times for a women till it feels good. but there is products you can buy over the counter to make it easier for you to have sex and not so painfull, k y jelly to name one ,also please remember to pratice safe sex no sex is the best way to stay safe but if you are gonna have it protect your self and your partner
2007-03-26 14:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by mylilsun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex often hurts the first time. If u don't use tampons or do a lot of vigorous exercise then the hymen was probably still intact. When the hymen (a flap of thin skin at the opening of the vagina) is broken for the first time there can be a little bit of bleeding and some pain, but further sex after that should not cause any more pain or bleeding unless the mucous membrane is broken with a finger nail or something. If u try using a lubricant next time it might be better, because maybe the inside of ur vagina was a little too dry. But when ur sexually aroused, that is remedied anyway by ur own natural juices.
I hope that helps.
Good luck, love.
2007-03-26 14:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by kiwi_mum1966 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it seems like you're too young to be having sex anyhow due to your lack of knowledge. Anyhow, it's your first time. When the penis penetrates the vagina, it breaks a layer of skin called the hymen, which hurts (and is why females bleed a little). Also, even though your vagina can stretch, it's not used to having something as round as a penis inserted into it. You also need to make sure that your vagina is wet enough before the penis is inserted into your vagina. It's a form of lubricant and it'll make it easier for the penis to go in without it hurting. Having sex the first couple times will hurt because again, you're not used to having sex . make sure to ALWAYS ALWAYS use protection. talk to your mother about getting on birth control and always have the male wear a condom.
2007-03-26 15:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by Kiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for as i can see its your first time .thats why it hurt so much,not to worry keep having sex and it will stop.
2007-03-26 14:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by pretty mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a frightening hadith of Prophet(pbuh) I have no idea the certain phrases however the hadith is that If a Muslim see an oppression and comes to a decision to not do whatever approximately it, does not condemn the acts of the oppressor by means of his center or by means of his speech have the bottom degree of Emaan.
2016-09-05 17:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either was too big, or you weren't wet enough. Make sure if gives you good foreplay, or oral sex to get you ready. You can also try lubricants. And tell him to go slow until your ready for him to speed it up.
2007-03-26 15:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell u the truth it does hurt but every girl its different but its because u are a 1st timer and thats just natural
2007-03-26 14:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by gya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not unusall to here beacuse fist time you have to brake throught the hymen it just takes time
2007-03-26 14:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by FF_EMT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was the first time and you were not ready
sexually or emotionally
2007-03-26 14:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by caffsans 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea ur hole is small and his is big.....and ur not used to it and didn't kno wat to do........he should have took slowly and gently since it was ur first time.......maybe it will get better next time or when u are used to it more...
Luckz
2007-03-26 14:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋