I'm 19, in university and there is nothing I am good at! I grew up in a small town, spent most of my time alone . Now everything i ever thought I was ok at, it turns out I'm not. I can cook some, I was good in high school math but now I'm about average. I used to like playing music but I started taking lessons really late and when i moved to the city I found out that a few years of practising alone from books mean nothing if I've never played with other people. I liked music but it's gotten so boring playing by myself that I cant stand it and i've pretty much quit. Plus no one really wants to play with me because I have NO idea what to do. Im also horrible at and hate playing sports. Basically I can't find anything I like and I have nothing to bond with people about, nothing to make me special, nothing to do with my life and I don't know what to do about it!
2007-03-26 14:12:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're a freshman at college alone in a strange place. The first year is always the hardest. Stick with it. You're not alone. You'll make friends and feel more comfortable over time. When you're near graduation, you'll look at the new nervous freshmen coming in and know exactly how they feel. You'll also feel great about yourself that you had the heart to follow through and graduate. By then you'll be really good at something and will be beaming with confidence. Life will look a lot brighter and doors will open. Good luck.
2007-03-26 14:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by sol_s_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has some sort of talent or interest. I would get involved with something that is focused not so much on being good at it, but having fun, and that's the key: if you're not having fun, then don't do it. In your case, i would try intramural sports that your university offers. That way you don't have the pressures of being good at it, you're just in it to have fun and learn something new and maybe meet some new people who share that interest with you
2007-03-26 14:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Volunteer at a local home for the elderly. Get interested in these people, their stories and their abilities. You'll be fascinated by their lives and may even come up with some new hobbies for yourself.
2007-03-26 14:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by dragonwing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you can cook and you didn't put yourself down on that subject. I say be a chef.
Question: How can you be in a university and not know what to do?
2007-03-26 14:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats why you had to plan out your life in high school..thats what school is.. to show u things and try new things... you should take those quizzes to see what ur interested at ..theres always new things out there u can try.
2007-03-26 14:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry. Everyone has a talent. pick something and work hard at it never give up. It works everytime!
2007-03-26 14:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by HAYLiE ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're wrong about that. You are good at Writing!
2007-03-26 14:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by Happy Camper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time- good things comes to ppl that wait and have patience
2007-03-26 14:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by rebelady28379 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋