alright, l'm a sophomore in Highschool I'm 16 years old and My friends cousins go to the local college and can get my friend (who already has been) and me in to it. I've never really been to a high school party with alcohol much less a college one. I want to go, but I would have to lie to my mom if I did.. and thats why I'm hestitating I know what I should do but then what I want to do! Anyway, what would you do? I would have to say II am 18.. but then again don't all teens at somepoint go to some party and lie to parents Idk why I'm having a hard time with this.. If I don't plan to drink or anything is it wrong. idk if I told my mom the truth I don't think she would let me go. I don't care if i got caught and got grounded or anything BUT i care about lying to her... what am I suppose to do. I want to go I've never ever been.
2007-03-26 13:58:47 · 11 answers · asked by Hannah S 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
I'm 16 years old and a girl by the way.
2007-03-26 14:01:31 · update #1
ldk.. I figured I could just say that I've actucally been to a college party and stuff.. I've never had beer or anything.. so maybe take a sip but doubt that.. Aughh Idk
2007-03-26 14:04:07 · update #2
Also it's my friends cousins and what we would do is seperated once we got there because they would meet up with there GF's and so my friend and l would hang out until around10 or 11pm when they are ready to go and they wouldd bring me home and pick me up..
2007-03-26 14:10:22 · update #3
If l lied l would tell her we are going to see a late move and dnner before that. I jjust dont want to lie to her and then her not trusting me anymore because she does trust me. But when I had asked about a after prom party she said l could go to prom but not an afterparty being a sophomore. so if she wont let me go to that idk if she would let me go to a college one..
2007-03-26 14:14:01 · update #4
well, there is a reason she wont let you go there, drunken fratboys and rape is one of them, and cops show up at many college parties to break them up and you could get arrested. When i was in college i dont remember too many 16 yo showing up, and i dont think i would really like it if they did, it would be like me showing up at your house for a party with some high school kids. A beach party is one thing, that is all ages, but house parties are different. I guess you are gonna have to lie to her if you want to go, but you should remember that she was young once and probably did the same thing, and her since her mom did too she probalby got caught.
2007-03-26 14:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by rand a 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its more of a half truth if you at least tell your parents that you will be with your cousin.
just dont drink or dont drink more than three this first time.
watchout for each other. I am very happy that I waited til i had just turned eighteen to get drunk (not counting one funeral)
doing too much drinking takes up too much of your social life to become a habit before you get accepted to college.
if you mom doesnt trust your cousin then maybe you wont be allowed to go...... but at least you wont blatantly lie. sometimes parents know what you are really up to and she might let you go allong to hang out with college kids because she trusts you and your cousin. your cousin can always get you into a party sometime next year if need be
2007-03-26 14:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by smartass_yankee_tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 12:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, your not really missing much. Also, you are trying to grow up too fast. Go to some high school parties with some kids who are your age. Hanging out with college students can be kind of intimidating. You can still get wasted at high school parties if you want to, but that's another story. And you'll just regret lying to your mom.
2007-03-26 14:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by zac s 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, it really is nothing special. Plus you hardly know anyone and if your not really outgoing or wasted you probably won't have a very good time. Why lie to your parents about this, your not missing out on anything, plus every person at that party will probably know you not 18, sorry. It is not worth the trouble you can get in, believe me.
2007-03-26 14:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by Gibblerr 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think you should do it......will u be strong enough to say no when someone tempts you with a drink or drugs?? i dont mean to sound like an old harsh grandma or anything, but i no a lot of people who have tons of regrets just cuz they go to some party...i wouldnt want that to happen to anyone else....plus wat if the cops come and even if u arent drinking, ur caught in the middle and the rest of your future is altered....plus do u really want to lie to your mom?? wat if she discovers the truth and ur relationship is never the same?? ok well i hope u make the right decision. good luck!!
2007-03-26 14:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by karen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll admit that I lied and went to a party that had alcohol when I was a sophmore...it was fun and I didn't get caught.
You just have to weigh the pros and cons on going to this party...what will happen if your parents find out you lied?...will you have the ability to leave if somehing goes wrong?
If you go...I hope you have fun...if not...then just know you will get your chance!
2007-03-26 14:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by War Veteran 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
listen to your conscience. sex, drugs, your mom. Sounds like your a good kid with a good mom. this one party could be the worst decision of your life. What do you expect the party to be like?
2007-03-26 14:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Nothing good will come of you going to this party.
Wait until you are in college to go to college parties.
2007-03-26 14:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by Sam Fisher 3 · 6⤊ 2⤋
at least u will meet some fine college girls just think about that
2007-03-26 14:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋