it seems that every gf ive had has cheated on me.... and when i finally get dumped they make it so suddle... is it me or them?
2007-03-26 13:40:10 · 29 answers · asked by dirky15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and im 15 years old
2007-03-26 13:43:37 · update #1
its not you, its the ouher person they will soon relize that they made a big mistake.♥
2007-03-26 13:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by girl_that_is_blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to raise the bar. You've tried going out with losers now try something else. Youre going to have to figure out what these girls have in common with each other and aim higher next time. Ask one of the girls that you think is way out of your league to a movie sometime. Apparently you have much more class than youre giving yourself credit for. And dont feel bad, we have ALL been in your shoes. Youre not a loser, they are. No biggie. Live and learn.
And at 15 you might want to do yourself a favor and stay away from dating for awhile. As youve seen some girls are about games, sometimes its just not worth it. I'd wait a year or so. Take a breather.
And take your time getting serious next time. Make it a goal to become friends first. During this time you are checking out what type of person they are and if they meet your standards then okay. If not...Next!
2007-03-26 21:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by Peg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like THEY are the ones with commitment problems. Be glad they dumped you - you don't want that type of person in your life anyway. Everyone get cheated on at one point (maybe even several points) or another but the biggest mistake you can make is giving that person the opportunity to do it again. The world is full of fickle people, but it's full of honest people, too & you WILL find one. Keep your chin up & look out for #1.
2007-03-26 20:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by ScarlettBegonias 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The short answer is: Because you allow them to. That doesn't mean you necessarily do things that make women cheat on you and dump you, but you seem to be choosing partners who are prone to doing that. Try being more selective. Spend some time single and figure out what it is you really want.
2007-03-26 20:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by Carole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 15 years old both sexes are basically experimenting .
Try and not let it get you down .Wait untill you are mature and ready for a serious relationship .Don`t " Fall " in love so easily or you will get hurt .
Girls don`t realize it but guys have feelings too .
Good luck ,
You`re probably too Nice ,They seem to be attracted to the Bad Boy types when they are young .
2007-03-26 20:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's YOU, there's something sublime that gives them the OK to do this. Is there a stamp on your forehead that says "kick me"? Is it the type of woman you attract or are looking for one that's all wrong for you? Set different standards, find someone who appreciates you from the start. Instinct will guide you. Get some reading material about self esteem and self confidence. Learn about yourself. Good luck.
2007-03-26 20:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by lindalousmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to say with out knowing you but my own experance tells me that if you show all your love from the start they get real tired of ya quick. You need to stay back and look at the roses for awhile befor picking. And when you do tell them you love get ready to also tell them that a good *** wooping is in order if they can't keep there pants on. You have to be a bad boy for them to want to stick around.
2007-03-26 20:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by bob p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you, some people are just the cheating type, regardless on how you behave, if they want to cheat, they will. I know it's hard, but eventually you'll find someone who won't cheat, and who will make you very Happy. If they cheat on you, then they didn't deserve you to begin with....hang in there.
2007-03-26 20:45:33 · answer #8 · answered by Yoda_Yodel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, you are too young to be talking serious g/f, so, this could be a big part of why you may be taken for granted in these relationships. There's too much to learn about females, and relationships to be stressing over it at this point of your life.
2007-03-26 20:54:55 · answer #9 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be a lousy coincidence. Don't give up! Lots of girls do not cheat. Maybe you got all the cheaters out of the way!
2007-03-26 20:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you keep picking cheaters.Learn about the person BEFORE you start dating them.Ask around a bit,talk to some of their ex's and get THEIR side of the story.
2007-03-26 20:43:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋