I have a friend who cuts himself he hasnt done it in a while so yeah, but i always told him not to do it and well yeah, see for me he saved my life, he talked me out of it and cutting myself, but last night i was really depressed over at my best friends house so i cut my self, i couldnt get hold if him and plus my other friend thinks that was to scared to cut and never do it, i feel really bad, and today i asked him if he hates me and he hasnt responed, i dont know if he is just mad at me or hates me, what if he doesnt want to be my best friend anymore.
The girl or my other friend is also my best friend
i dont know what to do
i love him to death and after, i dont want him to hate me, or think that im not that good of a person that i and he thought i was.
the reason i told him is because i cant never lie to him
right now i feel like i shoud regret telling him.
2007-03-26 13:33:02 · 4 answers · asked by Do or Die You'll Never Make 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There's a saying that you need to take the beam out of your eye before telling your friend to take out his mote. Really it means not to be a hypocrite. I have been in a very similar situation as you, and first I believe you need to want your happiness. Put aside all the hurt and understand that in order to help him, you must want his contentment just as much as yours.
Don't regret being honest with him. If he is truly somebody worth loving I'm sure he will understand your problem. Tell him you want to fix it! It can change the entire relationship
hey, good luck girl
2007-03-26 14:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by Corinne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, gosh. I guess this is the concept of self mutilation. He might think that cutting himself is like slicing his way to happiness. Well, you should start by getting him immediate help. Talk to your counselor at school, talk to your parents, talk to HIS parents. he might hate you for a while, but then he might realize it was for his own good. And this thing about you cutting yourself? Well, first of all, you were depressed, i could understand that. But cutting yourself, or slicing your way to happiness, doesn't work. You make that pain stronger and you'll regret later on. I can't write much right now because i have to go, but have any more questions, email me (kute_kim90@yahoo.com)
2007-04-03 13:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may hate you for doing something that you told him not to do but i don't think that if you are best friends that you cutting your self will ruin the relationship
2007-04-03 02:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs a doctor.
2007-04-03 14:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋