oo. me and my ex broke up a couple of weeks ago and he keeps talking and asking me out! i cant cause i already went out with him 3times! and i was tired of crying when i dont get to see him! so i had to get out of the realationship!! what is the promblem?
2007-03-26 13:03:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you don't want to date him again then quit saying yes when he asks you out, you dumped him because you got tired of not seeing him or crying when you couldn't you are only repeating the cycle, was something keeping you from seeing him? you should just be happy with the time you did get to spend together, you are not going to see someone you're in a relationship with 24/7....
2007-03-29 12:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant handle the fact that you cant have everything your way. Couples that are always around each other is definitely a recipe for disaster. Couples actually need the time away from each other for their own reasons, to take care of their own life. Together couples smother each other and the relationship to death, so you should cherish your time together and worship your own time apart and learn to compromise and dont try to get everything you want. Youll be better off for it. Back off on the constant time together thing and try dating him again with a little less emotions and see what happens. That is if that guy will still want to see you.
2007-03-26 13:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is poorly defined. Why couldn't you see him? It sounds like you were seeing him. The problem is confusion, because you are not explaining the situation in a meaningful way. So if you can't see him, and you don't cry because you got out of the relationship, the problem is why did you cry when you didn't see him when you were seeing him. Understand?
2007-03-26 13:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by Safira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like there are 2 sides to your judgment. one is telling you that you like to be with him and the other is telling you its not in your best interest. since you posed this as a problem i will use this as an analogy supposed he kept taking you out for seafood but you were allergic to shellfish................your good judgment must have a really sound reason for how loud its shouting over the fun reasoning. good luck to you.
2007-03-26 13:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by tennis4746 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea, you don't want to be with him and have ended the relationship, so what is your problem? Just because he asks, doesn't mean you have to say yes.
2007-03-26 13:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you must be about 12.
2007-03-26 13:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋