Am I blind or is my relationship a bore? What do you think? I spend most of my time caring for his home. He thinks everything is okay? What do u think?
2007-03-26 12:59:15 · 10 answers · asked by Susanna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You: Are a nanny, cook, clean, play, organize and rehabilitate his world. No ring? No wedding date? No pay? You live there? What's the trade off??? You are feeling unappreciated OBVIOUSLY?? 26 and no life but his???? Take a break and see what he does. No idea until you give it a test run but I sure as hell wouldn't do all that for no pay or perk. You are far too young to lay down and give up.
2007-03-26 13:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by lindalousmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship could be a bore. Sometimes from time to time relationships need to have a little spice. Start going on dates together again and watch your life come to life again.
2007-03-26 20:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes things the way they are right now. I don't think he is showing signs of wanting things to change at all and I think you need to realize this as well. Just let things alone and let him alone and I think if things change as far as he is concerned he will be the first to let you know, don't you? I think the worse thing you can do is to force him to change things and if you decided to do this you might push him further away from you. Know what I mean?
2007-03-26 20:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if that's all that really goes on it doesn't sound much like a relationship at all. if he works at home then what's stopping him from helping you out so you's can have more free time to do stuff together?
2007-03-26 20:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by steve4s85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen hun, everything is no okay here it is only ok for him becuz u let him treat u like a maid give him an ultimatum and say i need u not a feather duster in my hand all day
2007-03-26 20:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by XxGothXx D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and explain that he has to help out around the house too because its not fair for you to have to do it all while also taking care of his children with no time left for the two of you, just suggest that he take some time out of his schedule to spend some time with you to reconnect again....
2007-03-29 19:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. You've gotten a preview of what a long term relationship would be like.
2007-03-26 20:05:11 · answer #7 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he thinks everything is OK; you haven't cowboy-ed up and told him it's NOT OK!
2007-03-26 20:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him...if you don't, why does he have any reason to think anything is wrong?
2007-03-26 20:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by Smooch The Pooch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you are just really bored. do something exciting.
2007-03-26 20:02:43 · answer #10 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋