I'm considering getting circumcised. I wanted to do it as an aniversery surprise for my wife because she is overseas and i will be able to heal b4 i see her again. I was just wondering what most women would think of this if their husband did it it. Does it make any sexual difference at all? Does it feel any different?
2007-03-26 12:39:17 · 17 answers · asked by Doug K 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
If my husband did something that big and unchangeable I would freak. I freaked out when he shaved his mustache off (that i loved) and couldn't make love to him or kiss him and had a hard time looking at him till it grew back. I have three little boys and I would not and did not do that to them. My father-in-law had it done because it got infected some how and said that it hurt really bad and wouldn't suggest getting it done any other time than as a baby. Back in the bible times is when that started and then it was done as an act of love and loyalty to God. After Jesus came there is no more need to do it. Waite and talk to her about it before you do anything. If she really would like you to do it then, she will waite until you heal. I also herd that it is better sexually with it still on. Do you honestly want to mess with things down there?
Good luck. :)
2007-03-26 20:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by Angelfur 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no reason for you to get circumcised. Most women do not care one way or the other. Has your wife complained about it or something? And that's why you want to do it? My husband isn't circumcised and I think he's perfect just the way he is. It's a lot of tissue you're considering having removed. You will probably lose a lot of sensitivity. You should really think about this and decide is this is something YOU really want to do. It doesn't make sex better for a woman at all. In fact, uncircumcised penises are actually better because of the way the foreskin functions. They're a little bit thicker because of the extra tissue and women don't experience as many problems with dryness during intercourse as they do with circumcised men. Do your research.
2007-03-26 20:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Do YOU want to get circumcised because it bothers you that you aren't? If so then do what makes you happy, just make sure you understand that it will probably feel very different to have a loss of so much tissue on your penis. I, personally, would not do it if I was you because there is no need to do it. There is nothing wrong with not being circumcised. I don't care either way. I don't have a preference for circumcised or not.
2007-03-26 20:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Haulie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You really should be asking men about this issue, not women!
My belief is that if you are born a certain way, it is probably that way for a reason. Don't mess with countless years of genetic perfection.
Reasons for your woman that you should stay all in one piece is that it is incredibly sexy and uncircumcised men normally require little to no extra lube.
I have been romantically involved with 2 men that were circumcised as adults. Neither was circumsized by choice, it was required due to sports injuries in both cases. Both of them had had intimate relations before the injuries. Both of them unequivocally stated that they would never, ever have done it by choice if they knew what they know now. They both, emphatically, stated that they lost sensation in the glans. They say that it had never recovered. This was 6 and 10 years post surgery.
Intimacy after circumcision is like paradise lost...
2007-03-26 20:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by Calluna 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is no difference sexually between a circumcised man and an uncircumcised man that a woman can notice. Only the man can tell a difference. I hear that you lose a lot of sensitivity when circumcised. Men who have been cut since birth don't know what they're missing ~ you will. Maybe you should just leave your penis as it is.
2007-03-26 20:49:21 · answer #5 · answered by DawnRenee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would want my partner to do whatever would make him happy if he were in your situation. So sorry that you have to go through something like this at a older age. Every circumcised man that I have been with or ever known has never had any kind of sexual problems. Even though all the radicals out there will give you all kinds of resources that will tell you different. Also it doesn't feel any different...... I'm sure you have done your research before you made this decision so don't listen to people that will be negative. Hope you are happy with the outcome, good luck!!
Edit*** That's what unconditional love is all about!
2007-03-26 20:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by hopewishdream 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I wouldn't do it if I were you. It's pointless. Women don't really care about that, at least they shouldn't. It's no different. It doesn't make sex better at all. I've been with both an actually the uncircumcised man was best. I had no problems at all with him being uncircumcised. Your wife probably likes you just the way you are.
2007-03-26 20:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by Addi 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure it will be a pleasant surprise something that you both want or something that you have spoken about together. Just make sure it isn't gonna freak her out. If it is all good then all the best, it doesn't make any difference at all.
2007-03-26 19:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by purpleorca 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it makes no sexual difference at all Take it from a woman who has had both circumcized and un circumcized. It doesn't feel any different...it's not the shape, or the foreskin that matter, what matters is the ability of the person connected to the penis that matters.
2007-03-26 19:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
When I was married to my first husband, he was not circumsized. He was the only man I'd ever been with who wasn't. It always bothered me. I wanted him to get circumsized, but I had read that men often lose sensitivity when this is done, and I didn't feel right asking him to do this. I would say, if you think your wife would appreciate it AND you're willing to risk permanent loss of some sensitivity, sure, why not?
2007-03-26 19:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by Karen S 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋