i have a best friend who i used to share everything!! we were the same person, we knew eachother, she knew that i liked a guy who is friend of her too, i trusted her blindely and she helped me with advises when i had a problem with the person that i liked but now she told me that the guy and her talked and he confesses her that he likes her and she says she likes him too, but the issue is that the guy and I already talked about that he knew that i fell for him and suddenly this happens what should i do??? if she decided to be with him the friendship is going to be over but forever!!!!!! and i dont want that, a friend like her is really hard to find even though what shes has done
2007-03-26 12:38:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i have a best friend who i used to share everything!! we were the same person, we knew eachother, she knew that i liked a guy who is friend of her too, i trusted her blindely and she helped me with advises when i had a problem with the person that i liked but now she told me that the guy and her talked and he confesses her that he likes her and she says she likes him too, but the issue is that the guy and I already talked about that he knew that i fell for him and suddenly this happens what should i do??? if she decided to be with him the friendship is going to be over but forever!!!!!! and i dont want that, a friend like her is really hard to find even though what she has done ( sorry for my english is really bad)
2007-03-26 12:39:26 · update #1
How old are you?
If you're in high school, don't worry about it. Seriously. I know everyone says "we will stay in contact lol?" but it never happens, eventually you will lose contact with your best of friends. If you want to be a good friend, I suppose you can let them go ahead.
Then go kick her in the ovaries.
2007-03-26 12:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friendship with that girl make not be healthy.
Signs of an unhealthy relationship:
• You don't trust yourself to make decisions without talking with your friend first.
• You feel like the two of you are against the rest of the world.
• You feel you need your friend's approval or love to be okay.
• You may find yourself doing things you normally wouldn't do.
• The friendship is out of balance-you're either giving more than your getting back, or vice versa.
..it also sounds to me that because you can't have this boy you are suicidal, if you had him, and something went wrong, you would then also be suicidal. It would probably be an unhealthy relationship.
I think that you should show your friend how a true friend is and find someone else to like instead of the boy you guys are fighting over.
2007-03-26 19:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by ≈[Łąūřėņ]≈™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember a true friend is forever. The one thing that can break a friendship up though is love interest...but trust me someday you will both kick yourselves for choosing some kid over your friendship. Of course your feelings are hurt but you know what if that guy likes her then why do you want to be with him? Find someone who likes you and only you. It'll all work out in the end.
2007-03-26 19:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by maygirl28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't stop being friends, but I think that something is wrong with the guy in question. I mean, if he knew that he liked your friend and not you, he should have told you about it before confessing his love. Let time test their relationship, for all you know it could crumble into a million pieces and you might find someone else that you may like. There are plenty more fish in the sea, right? :0)
2007-03-26 19:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by fruitsbasket fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want to offer you something that if you take it to heart will solve your dilemma. the most difficult thing in life to do is to forgive someone when you are hurt. [because you are] by not forgiving though it becomes your 100 lb sack to drag around the rest of your life. your friends may be wrong and others will disappoint you in the future, but try your best to let it go and take the high ground. spend a little time alone and project into the future. is it really a big deal? will it have mattered 2 months from now? probably not. forgiveness is a rarity that will help enable you to a long and happy life. good luck!
2007-03-26 20:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by tennis4746 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have been the one to talk to the guy first and even then he probably would have STILL preffered your friend over you.They cannot help the way they feel towards each other and Im sure she didnt mean to hurt you.It isnt her fault he likes her.She can dump him and hurt his feelings to make you happy because things didnt work out the way you wanted OR you can be a big girl and realize you 2 werent meant for each other and get over him and wait for the next guy who you may like even better.
2007-03-26 20:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you dare let a stupid guy some between your friendship. He's not worth that. Forget about him. And if he knew you liked him and he went out with your best friend, thats not a guy that you'd want anyways. Good luck!
2007-03-26 20:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by If It's Love at First Sight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you and your best friend should put a boy who is going to come and go meaning not going to be in your life as long as you best friend. He is just one boy, there's lots of boys who don't want to come between friends.y'all should not end y'all friendship over a boy. What y'all need to do is both not go with him because I'm sure y'all will find a boyfriend later on in life....
2007-03-26 19:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by keivette j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with a friend like her you sure don't need any enemies huh?
It won't last between your friend and the guy,, he will want you back and by then you will find he is really just a jerk. When he dumps your friend, she will need you back as her friend. Ir will be up to you then,, forgive her and be friends again or not and not have her as a friend.
2007-03-26 19:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jo Blo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋