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But I'm not; I'm just nervous and shaky and so I say or do stupid things in front of them. Like spilling coffee on them. How do I show them that I'm intelligent?

2007-03-26 12:24:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

13 answers

just be yourself. try relaxing before you talk to them.

2007-03-26 12:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by Katy 5 · 2 1

Actually I've never had a successful date where the guy did not have a few clumsy moments. On my first date with a fairly long term boyfriend of mine, he tripped on the way down from my porch, almost taking me with him. Another Beau managed to get his glasses tangled in my hair trying for a goodnight kiss (that was when I wore my hair very long).
I never assume they are stupid, just nervous and anxious for things to go well. So I act accordingly by never wearing white (or pastels) on a first date, give a gentle and understanding smile and try for a different intelligence test. If they look relieved when I mention Nietzsche (or philosophy in general) history, literature or politics then I know we'll get along.

2007-03-26 20:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by K 5 · 0 0

If a girl judges you from one incident then she is too judgmental or immature. There comes a time when you realize that we can't always peg someone from one episode...and everybody makes mistakes.... If you get nervous when physically around someone, maybe a phone call or a letter will ease you into a conversation and then you wont be so nervous.

2007-03-26 19:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by lampie 3 · 0 0

If you keep thinking like that nothing will change...So you get nervous...There are way of getting around this problem. First...No coffee when talking to the ladies...Second...Work your way up...Just start talking to random people just to get the experience of a spur-of-the-moment conversation... Third.. Be yourself...If your shy then your shy...Just don't get with a shy girl...Then there would be no conversation...Boring...

2007-03-26 19:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by Stelli 2 · 0 0

first of all, i think that girl bobbi is mean. secondly, u should just relax and be urself. trying to hard will make u mess up. u will slowly get confidence if u just try and start ut slow. good luck sweetie!!!

2007-03-26 19:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by jocelynnicolep 3 · 0 0

I would probably yell at you but I wouldnt get mad and call you dumb....justa clutz

2007-03-26 19:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by marie 3 · 0 0

wow. its sounds like u are dumb.
but really.
stop wit da coffee.
from a girls point of view.
you if u do do dat
buy them a new outfit.
the could forgive u.
but pick somethin
they like.



geez...

2007-03-26 19:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by ☼~~~Smile!~~~☼ 3 · 0 2

when you talk to a girl talk to her when your in a relaxing atmosphere where your comfortable and collected. you'll feel better and won't make you look dumb.

2007-03-26 19:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by apolloK♫ 4 · 1 1

aww :'( its ok everyone gets nervous around the opposite sex. just pretend they're already your friends and talk about stuff you usually talk to your regular fiends about :)

2007-03-26 19:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

Become a member of MENSA!

2007-03-26 19:37:29 · answer #10 · answered by celia3018 3 · 0 0

personally i like dumb guys(well,ones that act dumb!) COFFEE!

2007-03-26 19:31:28 · answer #11 · answered by Therapist in need of therapy! 2 · 0 3

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