Please give me details. I need to know if the person I love needs help. How do I know what is normal and what is not. I think its either that or I don't turn him on.
2007-03-26 12:16:33 · 9 answers · asked by La Chica Sexy! 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
When I want to talk to him about it he tells me that he's sorry for not being able to satisfy me. Later he even teases me that I am a sex-aholic and that I am in the mood all the time. Excuse me, but when I don't see you all day because we work opposite shifts, I can't help to want to be intimate with you on the weekend. Am I a sex-oholic? He makes me feel like a pervert.
2007-03-26 12:31:32 · update #1
If you don't have that problem then you don't need to ask!!
2007-03-26 12:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by apreston60 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A normal guy can get it hard by touch within a few min. A really sexual person can sustain an erection just by looks - 2 different ppl. Find out what turns him on and do it - same thing that you like this and that turns you on.
2007-03-26 19:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by logiegt5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think its you. That's always not a good idea to dwell on. Talk to him. He is embarrassed probably.
Now hear the scary thing... I knew a guy that had that problem. His wife joked about it a lot. He was seen visiting the porn shop not too much later. He was going in there to have sex with men through a glory hole. He was gay.
Another one I knew admitted he was addicted to porn. He could only get it up when he was watching porn. Does your guy spend a lot of time on the internet not wanting to be bothered?
2007-03-26 19:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by madbaldscotsman 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Erectile dysfunction can occur for various reasons:
Physical - diet, injury to penis, not enough blood flowing to shaft, he may have ejaculated before teaming up with you,
Mental - his mind is somewhere else, he's not ready, Too anxious/eager.
Some of the signs - no erection no matter what ones does to try to get it erect, an erection occurs but Does not stay up for long,
2007-03-26 19:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
e.d can come in many forms.unable to sustain an erection is one sign.unable to get one is another.talk to him openly and honestly but be sure to let him know that you want to help and that your not judging him.that will only make matters worse.if youve just started dating maybe hes just nervous.either way a trusted doctor can give him some answers or prescribe something.good luck.
2007-03-26 19:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by rbrennum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You provided no information about your husbands age and health. Erectile dysfunction is simple to define......
"A man has erectile dysfunction when he has the inability to obtain and maintain a normal erection of his penis."
2007-03-26 20:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at his penis about 5 min before he wakes up
If he doesn't have a Hard On odds are he has ED
2007-03-26 19:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
if you have done everything to turn your man on and he can't get it up... yes he has a problem and it is not you.....if he is on medication, it could be that, if he is a diabetic, it could be that, if he is a drug addict it could be that, or maybe he has a sexual preference if you know what i mean.
2007-03-26 19:23:15 · answer #8 · answered by M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put a bag over your head and I'm sure that will solve all your problems.
2007-03-26 19:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋